Guys, Is asking out a girl on April Fools Day considered a joke?

[Bgurl2_0]

So, I had a guy friend that would meddle in my relationship with my boyfriend. he basically created issues between my boyfriend and I when my boyfriend and I didn't have any and would make a big deal about them. Then, he wanted my boyfriend to prove to him that he loved me and I really don't know why. My guy friend just treated me a lot more nicer than normal. It was as though someone doused a bunch of maple syrup on pancakes. Anyways, on April Fools Day, he said: Hey Bgurl2_0, wanna go out? And it threw me off guard because why in the heck would you ask your friend that knowing that she has a boyfriend? I said: Of course I wouldn't go out with you :P, and didn't respond to it, just ignored it and then began to treat me like sh*t. Mind you, this all happened on his Discord server where everyone can see what he said to me.

Also, I should point out that before I started dating my boyfriend, I had feelings for this guy friend, but I got over him a long time ago. Soy boys, do you think that him asking me out was an April Fools joke, or do you think he was just using April Fools day as cover up and he was being serious about it? I don't know. I have so many theories as to why he did what he did, but I just wanna know your thoughts on it is all.

[Anonymous]

I would never do a cruel joke like that but at the same time it's a reminder of my lifelong hatred of how one-sided it is, why can't a girl ask a guy out for once? Why do I get the feeling it will always be extremely rare for a girl to ask a guy out?

[Bgurl2_0]

I don’t know tbh. Whenever I tried going after a guy, they pulled away and it looked “obsessive”. But the reason why I’m asking this is because no guy in their 20s would pull a joke like that. I expect it from a teenage boy, but not someone in their 20s. And I don't know. It just seemed like he was serious even though he made it seem like an April Fools joke. Especially since he started treating me like shit after I said no to him.

[Opinion Owner]

can't speak for every guy

[Wise4myage]

It wouldn't be to me.

[Bgurl2_0]

You wouldn't think it was a joke either?

[Wise4myage]

No, because I don't joke like that.

[Bgurl2_0]

I didn’t think guys would joke like that, especially if they’re in their 20s. This former guy friend will be 26 next year in May. What he pulled was such high school bs that it can’t be just a joke to him.