Im married and just endured this scenario. It doesn't end well. But contrary to what others say here, I very much love my friend. I didn't expect or want an affair with her, but it was becoming very awkward. I never kept her a secret and my wife was friends with her too. Fact is, men look elsewhere when their needs at home are not being satisfied. My friend and i were exchanging gifts, food, and office visits. She was openly flirty. I didn't think much of it until my coworkers began rumoring we were having an affair. Ultimately I decided it must end. So i bluntly told my friend I love her, but could not be friends because it was hurting me professionally and personally. This devastaed her. She filed a harassment claim against me and quit her job.
Obviously she wasn't my friend... dont end up like this
You're playing with fire. Once you start messing around with a married man, then when you yourself get married, you won't be able to complain when your husband starts messing around with younger women. Up to you. Once you light that match, there's no going back.
*flaw* married older man. Just think about that for a minute.
A, he will never ever leave his wife for you
B, these things always end sour
C, I always think you need to look at it from “how would I feel if this happened to me?” How would you feel if you were happily married and your husband was cheating? How would you feel if your dad did that to your mum? How would you feel about the woman?
Absolutely no good can come of this and you shouldn’t be even taking a second thought as to why he’s chasing you. You should leave it there
The 2 kids means he's not getting sex anymore. Married guys are awesome lovers if you decide to hook up with him or be friends with benefits.
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Some guys want what they don't have. You say he is 13 years older than you, I assume that makes her a little older than you also. He probably dose think your beautiful but in the end your either just gonna be his whore that he sleeps with on the side or his wife finds out and leaves with his kids and after so long he will be cheating on you with another girl. If he'll cheat with you, he'll cheat on you. Don't start that, I feel sorry for his wife but don't get yourself in that mess. Sorry for being so harsh but in this case the truth is going to hurt. Don't be the one that messed up the lives of his wife and kids.
I’ve been in a Situation like that before. usually if a married guy shows interest in you, he’s usually just looking for sex not a romantic relationship.
If he does like you romantically , he probably won’t leave his wife and kids for you.
Find yourself a single man without all the trouble and baggage. Much easier to date and less problems
He doesn't give a rats ass about you.
Just leave it well alone.
Why the hell would you want anything to do with someone who cheats on his family and or why would you want some guy with a broken marriage and 2 kids in tow?
Sounds like a fake situation to me. Since it does happen accidental pregnancy happens too even on the pill and condoms break. Then what? Think he will leave his family for yours? Then you’ll take him to court for child support and with his own family already destroyed he’ll just move on to the next younger model.
He wants to have sex with you. Once you’re married that’s it. Game over.
I don’t mess around with married people.
Even if the hottest woman opens her legs and says stick it in. It’ll be extremely hard to walk away from that.
But trust me this guy is fked!
Average girls can get unmarried Better guys.
Unless you’re really unattractive in reality.
You're seriously stupid if you go into that beartrap.
Why the fuck are you fretting over some married man ( with kids)? Ignore the fucker and find some guy who is not going to use you as a side chick.
You better stop contacting or seeing him since you might also the one who might cause his family to fell apart.
Also, there might be a chance that the wife will be chasing after you and blaming for seducing her husband.
A friend of mine had the same relationship like you and it ended bad. The wife blamed her instead the husband.
No, he doesn’t like you... he wants to f*** you and that’s it. Don’t think you’re special because he’s most likely done it before with other women.
He is bored with his home life and is looking for some excitement. If you decide going down that route be very careful as it rarely ends well.
Run. Run away and never return. That man sounds like trash.
Because he's horny and a piece of shit. Dont entertain this loser.
Does it matter why?
Don't entertain it and move on. You know he's married; why think about it long enough to ask this question?
The "why" is irrelevant. All you have to do is say no. Just say No.
Why would he be interested in you? Why should you even think of him, let alone entertain him? What realistically could you possibly offer him, that he can't get from his wife?
Gosh I feel really bad for his wife. Don’t do anything just say no you could ruin a marriage and the lives of those kids
His wife will know in the end and his marriage will end so just leave him before you ruin everything it is that simple.
He must like them young. How does he show he likes you?
Maybe you represent adventure & scandalous delight?
He's looking to cheat, most likely bored at he and wants to mix it up
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