For example my brother early this morning left the house very early in the morning cause someone came and pick him up. Before he left he just told mom and me he was going to down town, period. We dont know who the person was who came to pick him up, maybe it was a friend sure, but we dont know who it was. So he left and returned home like 5 hours later safe and sound which that was the important thing anyway. My brother is an adult.
I asked my brother where did he go since he left early and just told us "im going downtown" that is the only thing he mentioned he did not give details of the errands he was going to do with the friend who came and pick him up. I continue and ask and ask if it had something to do with a friend of him who had been illed from the last 2 months (he need a heart transplant and he is just 43). I thought maybe if it was related to that he may had been visiting the friend in his house since he left early from home or that his friend got worse or something like that but i will neer know if that was related or not.
So my brother insisted and told me again "I was in downtown", then he added : "Why you want to know? I dont have to tell you, I never asked you where you go anyway" And this is a lie beause when I go out my brother do ask me where do I go. I always say where do I go to my mom so she knows at least where I am.
Anyway, my brother always had been like that he never report to anyone where he goes or what he does, he is a secret in that, cause he says he does not like it. In fact my mom never ever in her life since my brother was younger know who are my brotehr friends, my mom or even myself never had met any friend of my brother, not even dates, lady friends, nothing
SO my sister tells me dont worry at least he return safe and sound with the friend who came to pick him up then my sister adds.