Would you agree on this statement: "Men are not a communicative people" ? (Page 2)

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Is it about their biology, their gender or what? But most men indeed do not like to share anything about themselves or what they do in a normal day, they rather to keep everything reserved and in secrecy.  For example my brother early this morning left the house very early in the morning cause someone came and pick him up. Before he left he just told mom and me he was going to down town, period. We dont know who the person was who came to pick him up, maybe it was a friend sure, but we dont know who it was. So he left and returned home like 5 hours later safe and sound which that was the important thing anyway. My brother is an adult. I asked my brother where did he go since he left early and just told us "im going downtown" that is the only thing he mentioned he did not give details of the errands he was going to do with the friend who came and pick him up. I continue and ask and ask if it had something to do with a friend of him who had been illed from the last 2 months (he need a heart transplant and he is just 43). I thought maybe if it was related to that he may had been visiting the friend in his house since he left early from home or that his friend got worse or something like that but i will neer know if that was related or not. So my brother insisted and told me again "I was in downtown", then he added : "Why you want to know? I dont have to tell you, I never asked you where you go anyway" And this is a lie beause when I go out my brother do ask me where do I go. I always say where do I go to my mom so she knows at least where I am. Anyway, my brother always had been like that he never report to anyone where he goes or what he does, he is a secret in that, cause he says he does not like it. In fact my mom never ever in her life since my brother was younger know who are my brotehr friends, my mom or even myself never had met any friend of my brother, not even dates, lady friends, nothing

HaveNoName · Answer

Being secretive is something different but generally, men say the same thing in much fewer words and normally, only once; specially on the phone.

Paul09 · Answer

Between other men, yes hard to communicate. With women, so much easier. They actually listen. Fml wish I had a girlfriend.

EnglishEuropean · Answer

If you've ever been given the "silent treatment" by a woman you'll know what a nonsense this question is.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Why are y'all in your 50s and still living at home?

Nice222 · Answer

I have always been secretive and quiet because I always felt that anything I say can and will be use against me. Either people trying to figure me out or as blackmail.

Anonymous · Answer

No I don't think there's that much of a difference. I mean I'm not very communicative but I've met guys that are. It varies from person to person

anylolone · Answer

Men are very communicative, you just don't understand their language.

OG956 · Answer

It depends on type of people. Cause I'm introvert I don't talk 2 much, but I really like 2 listen friends, family, etc. with interestin' topics :)

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

I dont agree, healthy men with a good father figure know how to communicate.

bannacookies · Answer

I'd say that is true. Most only will talk about sex.

Iron_Man · Answer

No because I’m a very good communicator and listener

OddBeMe · Answer

Some truth, I blame the masculine traits men are trained to have.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Why are women overly emotional and need to share about it? you're so weird. Its not normal.

princeofromance · Answer

No, I do not agree with that statement, for I just communicated my opinion to you right now.

Minahh · Answer

Yeah, my brother is the same way, my boyfriend, as well. But also it depends on the man I guess.

OnTheLevel · Answer

I disagree. I think men and women communicate differently.

Calgarydirty69 · Answer

no, I am a man, Very social, learnt at a young age the importance of honesty love communication, don't be dishonest! Women don't like that crap

JosyJosy · Answer

they are, we just communicate differently

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

I agree to a certain extent.

Toldol2 · Answer

Yes they are When they feel good in general

LemiaOfChampions · Answer

It depends on the situation.

Anonymous · Answer

No, you're stupid. Stop generalizing.

fonduegirl · Answer

They can be very untalkative, yes

msc545 · Answer

It depends on the man.

Jay3344 · Answer

Men are pretty good at hand signals

jasco · Answer

Some people just don’t want you to know

Lonely888 · Answer

We are brought up like that

grega239 · Answer

Amd thats a problem because?

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

It depends. Not all men are the same

Dargil · Answer

Not at all.

Blackcupcake · Answer

strongly disagree

Joker_ · Answer

No‎‎‎‎‎‎

EaterPeter · Answer

Agree

Anonymous · Answer

that's wrong

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