He sends paragraphs to me and cute blushing emojis. He wishes good night at the end of conversation but won’t text first. Why?

[Anonymous]

He stays up chatting to me till almost 1am. He’s sending mixed signals :/.
Last time when we talked he hinted that I was. staying up later than usual just for him lol. I said that’s not
true.

[Faerum]

Sounds like he wants to see if you’re interested in him and willing to put effort into it by texting first. He’s looking for reciprocation of his feelings

[Asker]

But what shows that he’s interested?

[Faerum]

Cute blushing emojis, texting until 1 am, saying goodnight. All things I’ve done and I’ve seen other guys do.

[Faerum]

If he asked if you’re staying up later just for him that’s fishing to see if you’ll say yes, which would be validation.

[Asker]

I was stupid to see that he was fishing. I gave a valid reason why I was up and it wasn’t him. Then he said playfully that he almost got worried that He was giving me a bad example

[Asker]

But he told me he usually never goes to bed earlier than 12 am 🤷‍♀️

[Faerum]

If he won’t text you first start texting him first, I’m sure it will make his day.

[Asker]

When he was fishing for my validation was he flirting? He playfully hinted that I just chatting later than usual.

[Faerum]

People usually only do that if they are interested

[Asker]

One last question lol. What’s the difference between these two emiji : ☺️ And 😊

[Faerum]

They are interchangeable.

[Asker]

Is the other one more flirty than the other one?

[Faerum]

☺️ is more flirty to me than 😊

[Leonharted]

Probably doesn’t want to seem clingy.

[Asker]

So let’s me initiate all conversations? I would be the clingy one lol.

[Leonharted]

Nah. It’s not that you’re clingy. It’s that he’s making it clear that he likes you while being careful not to be possessive or invasive.

I don’t know what it’s like to be a girl, so I’m sure there’s stuff I don’t get from your perspective, but girls will ghost guys and the guys won’t even know why. He probably just got called too clingy.

Not YOUR fault, but if you want him to text first, tell him!

[Asker]

How he is making it clear that he likes me tho?

[Leonharted]

Yes. Very much so.

[Asker]

Tell me what are the signs? Because I’ve just thought that he’s very friendly.

[Leonharted]

Those emoji’s. Like, if any of my friends used them towards me, I’d be responding by asking if he was gay for me.

[Asker]

☺️ <—- he sent me that emoji if you can see. Does that nean he has a crush on me lol

[Leonharted]

If he doesn’t, then I believe he is likely gay. I don’t mean that as an insult. I have nothing against homosexuals. But that is not an emoji that a straight man sends to friends