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Trust me I understand. It is very difficult and I am darker than you
Darker is hotter though but I guess that is what you are saying is the problem. You don't wanna be hotter you want to be dated.
@BUTIMRIGHTTHO yes because it trending right now. But it’s hard dating finding someone because of it. A lot of guys one of the girls with the wavy hair not so curvy something that looks mixed Exotic. She has the upper hand out there
@priv9696 in the USA it’s worse. We are stereotyped before we even get on a date
It's because you look like a cartoon duck. Sorry to be the one to say it. There's just something uncanny about your mouth.
Everyone has a type. I am sure there is someone who will like you for you and love your skin color. Plenty of women your skin color have boyfriends.
Im mixed. A guy i know has a white girlfriend but he strings me along and hits on me for years.
Also just a word of advice. Dress modestly honey
No, it must be the circles you hang out in, or maybe you're attracted to the wrong types. Usually look hot.
You are beautiful and NO, your skin color has nothing to do with being wanted. Keep looking for a guy who wants to know you.
Fishing for compliment?
You know damn well you pretty. I hate when girls do this crap.
Are you approachable?
Are you going where guys are?
If I was pretty why do guys ghost me 🥲 I meet them on tinder/Instagram we talk for a week or so and they just lose interest
Most guys only want sex and don't want to work for it or have feelings involved.
Especially most guys on tinder.
It's a problem everywhere for everyone. But being attractive means good guys are intimidated and fuck boys are twice as common.
OMG WHY WOULD YOU THINK THAT? YOU'RE ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS. I'M CAUCASIAN BUT YOU CAN EVEN HAVE MY BABIES AND WHAT LUCKY MAN I'D BE! 😊 😍 😉
Desperation is also not sexy I don’t think your her target group.
@MJtheCoach. Are you so f'n stupid that you don't realize that this is a joke? I don't know what you could possibly be the coach of with your head stuck up your ass! IDIOT!
It was a joke that you think I’m gorgeous?
Cummonkwana <- nothing says more of a genius than that users name of CUM!!
That’s why you got upset you the same type of guy who kiss his ass constantly goes around throws mean in this complement to girls it’s like a blind dog that’s searching for a bone eventually you’ll catch one.
Too bad you don’t wanna listen I bet you some loser fat ass who stinks dresses like shit and I could probably guess your yearly income.
Hard times creates strong men imagine living in a free country I assume you’re in the US and still be prisoned by your own mind.
You don’t know shit and I bet if I look at all the girls if you did it any are all fat losers and rejection of the society there’s no other guy wants that you were able to get.
There's not nearly enough info about yourself, it's all surface information. How you are as a person and what your preferences are most likely has to do with why you're single.
Nah. Most relationships are like that, but you're focusing on reasons why that is. If everyone is doing it then it's the type of men that you're getting involved with.
Nope. You're some really pretty Black lady. That's not the issue.
I've never been lucky enough to be with a woman of colour bit I always wanted to.
You're still single because you fail to set the right boundaries.
A black woman with a British accent is super hot. I don’t know about these British guys but you should come to the US and you will be treated well.
I doubt it but lighter skin tones have always been generally looked good upon especially in areas where they aren't as prominent
What do you mean “aren’t as prominent” ?
India is like a go-to for that answer, they really love more pale skin tones over there, Asian countries, middle eastern countries. These are places where they don't see as many people with lighter skin so they kind of praise it, even in my home country if you see a person with like white skin and blonde hair locals will go take pictures with the person lol
So how comes black girls don’t seem to get praised in the uk? (White country)
Personally I dont think it goes both ways, to me it seems like most people will prefer a girl with lighter skin. Like I've seen so many post where a guy will put up 4 pictures of girls and like a majority of the time the lighter skin girl gets picked. Sure its circumstantial but I kind of see a pattern. At the end of the day though I think if focus on you and keep improving yourself no matter the skin color I dont see why you wouldn't find a partner. there's someone out there for everyone!
Thanks hun x
Of course! by the way just saying I love that 2nd outfit, I would wear that lol
By Asian you probably means south Asian.
Yeah
Wow! You are stunning! Hang in there though, you'll stumble across the right one for you eventually.
Skin color has nothing to do with you being single infact you look stunning and very down earth , it would be a blessing for the guy to have you in his life
Maybe there is something in your behaviour/attitude that makes them ghost you? It's 100% not about your looks
You are a uniquely beautiful woman. Guys in the U. K. must be idiots.
It's a combination of skin colour and the stereotype that black women are often seen as loud and difficult.
It's not because of your skin color. You are a beautiful woman. Maybe guys think that you are too high class for them
You get what you choose. Want better treatment then you need to choose better guys. It's that simple.
You can dislike if you like reality is still reality.
Why is it that as soon as something doesn't go to plan people seem to IMMEDIATELY run to cry "racism" rather than properly sorting out what they're doing wrong?
Why are my whites friends in relationships with the deadest personalities then? You start to see the pattern
Maybe they pick better men. If all your relationships fail, you should ask yourself who is the common denominator of all that failure.
I’ve only had 1 relationship. I don’t even get to that stage lol
So it sounds like you're screwing up earlier.
So you think it could be my personality rather than looks? I honestly thought guys mainly focus on lookd
Looks make a guy show up. You need to have a non-shitty personality for them to stick around. It's either that or you're going out of your way to focus on dudes who want to bail. But I 100% guarantee you the problem is you.
I do bring up relationships quite quickly and question them about other girls. For example I was talking to this guy on Instagram and it wasn’t going well then he told me he went on a date with a girl a couple of weeks ago and I keep asking about her … like “how did the date go?” “ what did she look like?” Because I was so worried he would take her out on another date
I'm multi-ethnic, so I'm NOT black or white. If I saw you in a roomful of white women, I'd make a bee-line straight to you. Your skintone is gorgeous!
by the way, NOT every guy likes blondes! I've NEVER dated one, nor would I. TOO COMMON!
Thank you. Means a lot
My pleasure. You're welcome.
Sure.
Nothing is wrong with you or your color you are even better then some of the white girls i know. you look cute, hot & sexy
You are gorgeous so it could be what you sayn how you say whatever you do say, your body language, your personality, your interesrs etc.
It’s not really like that here the USA , I would date you and so would other guys
Strange, I thought USA was a racist country
No more than others, it’s not bad by me since I’m near a major city
It is probably your lip fillers; most guys don't care for that stuff.
Naturally big
Really, then why did you say before that you have lip fillers?
Its not because of your skin color there just intimidated by your beauty. Do you only date white guy have you tried dating other races or are you only attracted to white guys
U look great. I would definitely like 2 have ebony girlfriend.
4 me most important thing is inner beauty (cause if person doesn't work on it, it doesn't change).
No, either you probably live in a predominantly white area or society treats Black women like fetish
It's not your skin color I think you are just picky. You've asked this question many times now
If you find out that your observation is true then you have to find other friends regardless of what the skin is !
Certainly not your skin color, its isn't because you a hot, or because men are shallow either.
(not that men, or women, aren't shallow)
Not from skin guys don't want relaniships really have make them see better off with you than not
Why don’t guys want relationships? Doesn’t playing the field get boring?
Lot follow there friends or see people on social media think that's what guys should do. Ya the chase can be fun. But rather have some that loves me always there for me and I would do same in return.
Its not your skin color but your attitude. I'd run like hell from a girl who has race issues no matter her race.
Has nothing to do with skin color I'm white an I date any girl of any race if she is nice
If that's you in the pictures, you're hot! Very nice looking!
You’re beautiful but I feel like if you were to dress more modestly guys wouldn’t see you as easy anymore. Your body is a jewel only let the guy you truly love see it
No it's probably your attitude and personality, otherwise you're very pretty.
If white guys don't treat you good then why don't you go for black guys
They only seem to go after light skinned girls
huh... kinda weird, you should look in some other country then probably America
maybe it’s something other than ur skin color 🤷♂️
Just seems like guys only like white girls with blonde hair
ha! ya I'm sure why you can't find love is because of the color of your skin
Well I am sure for some assholes that would maybe play a part. I think you look good. Over glammed for me but maybe it’s your personality
Black dudes like what don’t like them. They want Latinas. Latinas don’t marry black men in most cases
How long have you been single now and how long was your longest relationship?
I’ve been single 4 years and I was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years, broke up due to long distance
Oh I'm sorry to hear that, since it was long distance, were you and him able to see each other in person a lot?
You are just gorgeous!
Absolutely not why you are single. I would take you on a date if I could!
I don't think so, I would marry you in a heartbeat, you are sweet and very beautiful.
So blonde white girls aren't your type? Thank you 😊
uhhm not really, why would they be? They look so faded. You look like chocolate and coffee at the same time, I love your lips and your breasts are so sexy and perfectly rounded, you have a sexy body and you have the face of an angel and your hair so stilish. I feel very attracted to you and not for a night but like to have kids with you, your beauty would be inspiring for someone to look every day at, to dream at when he is not with you. You are a truly gorgeous woman.
Now if you will excuse me I think I am gonna go resolve the problem of my arrousal, looking at every one of your traits got a bit too intense.
You should come off anon and message me 😉
I can't message atm but i can come off so you can
I only see a girl. A pretty one at that...
Aw thanks. Means a lot. I’ll try and have more confidence
Beautiful absolutely gorgeous if you ask me! I would date you for sure!
There is nothing wrong with your skin colour luv, you're beautiful. Never forget that
Baby come to TX we will love you. You are beautiful
Babe you are absolutely gorgeous, be patient the right guy is out there
It will be weird but i like your feet.
And wish can cares them
I would marry you after dating for a period if you were older and I am white.
why did you break up? He didn't want to marry?
You’re cute. Is your skin holding you back? I don’t think so, maybe it’s you. You present yourself as an object if anything.
Are you kidding? You are gorgeous
Can’t be that gorgeous if no guy takes me seriously 😭
In my opinion, it's their loss. You're a beautiful woman. Maybe you're a bitch but you're gorgeous
Plenty of single white girls around