You are probably just being too picky and only accepting attention from the players and the CHADS but passing on the good relationship guys.
You are pretty enough, You have a beautiful figure, You are 25 (if info is correct) so you've had a lot of years to find good relationship guys. You are probably being so picky that you only accept attention from the real womanizing players.
You are hotter than a firecracker but I suggest that you lower your attractiveness standards and not expect the dude to be as hot as you are….. not physically, at least. Give a slightly nerdy guy a chance but pick a smart nerd who likely has a bright future. He doesn’t have to be unattractive, just not “hot”. He will likely worship the ground that you walk on.
Why, does your skin colour smell bad, or something? I can't say anything about your personality but, looks-wise, any guy that wouldn't go out with you is married, retarded, embarrassed about having such a small dick, gay or dead! I nearly married an Indian girl that's darker than you. You just look like you've got a really nice tan.
Everyone has a preference, doesn't mean they even realize they have it.
I can somewhat relate to you, just guys wanting sex... nothing serious. I don't ever compare myself in a what if world, cause that would be too depressing. I just do the best I can to go on the prowl myself, for something besides sex.
This question is a bit heart-breaking and, as I have mentioned numerous times with you, you are a rather attractive young lady.
That said, my hypotheses as to the answer to your question are somewhat complicated and personal to you, so I'd like to answer your question, but I'd rather do so privately in a conversation with you.
So, if you like, PM me. We have PMed before, I believe. I know that I can PM you.
I will try later. I am 6 hours behind you and working at the moment, so I may need to wait until tonight (which, for you, means you'll likely be asleep).
Just value yourself and only date high value guys who know your worth. You're beautiful and you're not the problem. Remember what I said about "birds of a feather flock together". It's not right but that's the way it's always been. People are dumb.
You are very attractive, and if I were to meet you I'd probably ask you out if I knew you were open to it. And yes I'm white. Trouble in this case however is that it's not just a matter of living in different states, but you are in the UK and I'm in the USA.
Very sorry that you aren't being treated as you deserve.
You show a lot of cleavage. And a lot of skin in general. Maybe that’s part of the reason that guys see you as a sex object. Your outfits are very cute, stylish, and are flattering on you, but they could be giving off the wrong impression to guys.
As someone in the UK, I'll be serious with you. Just from the pictures you posted, you come across as an "easy catch", for the lack of a better word. Dress classier. Show off less. Have standards. Why would a guy marry you when get what they want with you for free? Respect yourself. It has nothing to do with race. There are similar white and Asian girls.
Don’t you think it’s a bit wrong to judge a girl based on what she’s weeding though? I know loads of girls who show some much cleavage but are virgins and then there’s girls who dress classy and sleep around
I have found that the way a person dresses says a lot about their character. If all dresses are equal, would you wear a bikini or this to work? Ofcourse not... unless you work in certain industries. I've always judged women based on what they wear and their overall presentation. It has worked in my case. Sure, there are exceptions here and there but there is quite clearly a positive correlation. That's undeniable. Let's not talk about other girls. Are you a virgin?
I’m not into one night stands but I love showing off my curves because I constantly get told I have a good body. There’s girls who dress revealing and can still pull a boyfriend
So I was right. You did four dudes, dudes who possibly came after seeing the curves you showed off. If you show the curves off. Guys would come for the curves. That'll be all that's in their mind. That's the first thing they'll grab when they get the chance. If you love a guy, why show off your body to other guys? Show it to him. I know because I dated a girl like you. I gave her a chance. Think of it like this: why would a classy dude make you his wife when he can find a younger, more feminine girl if you're putting it all out there. If he can get it for free after a few dates, why marry you? There are things I can't tell you publicly but you're willing to at least listen. That's a good sign. I'll be real with you. You have 5 more years at best in the dating world where you can land pretty decent guys for long term relationships. After 30, it gets hard for women or they end up sextoys. Don't let that happen to you.
Very pretty girl, you obviously haven’t met the right person. Trust me you are stunning, I’m sure you will make any guy happy just mot met him yet, please don’t rush into a relationship. Take your time and he will come along.
I think the area you live in is just not racially varied enough, which might be causing that, yeah. However, the area I live in is VERY diverse, and my school even more so (about 30% black, white, Mexican each, last 10% is mixed & other) and while people do tend to date people from their own race, I've seen plenty of people dating across races.
If some guy rejects you because of your race, they don't deserve you. Take your time finding somebody who respects and loves you for who you are!
You look great, you just have to keep your chin up and keep your eyes open. As long as you try your best to be a good person then you will eventually find a person who loves you for you physically and personality wise
I’ve usually dated blondes in the past, but you have extremely attractive features, you appear very feminine, the way you do your hair frames your facial features very well and you appear to take care of yourself and are thin. Unless you have an off putting personality or are setting your standards too high, I don’t know. I kinda doubt it’s a race thing. It’s possible I guess- I don’t know what the stigmas are like in the UK..
If you want something to be true, you will look for reasons for it to be true.
It’s not because of your skin color. That’s excuse making. How about choosing men differently? Not saying you are, but don’t dress like a ho. Your self esteem seems fragile. I’d work on that before you decide to take on a relationship, don’t you agree?
You have to love yourself before you can give love to someone else. Now, on the very rare occasions, certain men (in your case) will help you grow as a person and you learn on the fly. It’s really hard to point out specifics because I’ve never seen you in person. But here it goes. Confidence is crucial when it comes to your love life.
When you feel bad about yourself, your insecurities can start to creep in to the way you act with your significant other and that can have a negative impact on both of you.
Plus, low self-esteem can distort your perception of your partner
Having low self-esteem can also make you more anxious about your relationship in general. “You may be afraid that your partner will leave you, or you panic over other things that others wouldn't think twice about
Well... people tend to favour those of their own race especially when considering long term so you might be on to something. I wouldn't get disheartened though, you're a beautiful girl.
@Lost_in_the_Woods what about guys who have been in serious relationships before and are now single? Isn’t there a chance they will want to find another serious relationship like their previous one?
In all fairness, there are a lot of white people that do fetishize us black people and believe it or not, it is disgusting.
I wouldn't say it's you being black as the reason you're not getting dates. Perhaps you have a type that you don't notice you or maybe you have a Stern face all the time.
I bet it is her looks. Guys are afraid to ask out 10's because they usually say no.
But, aren't you the same person who said all white people are racist? 🤔
That obviously isn't true if you read the comments on her and you obviously know that if you don't think her skin color makes her less likely to be attractive to guys who want a relationship.
Just pointing out that most white people aren't racist. We should all agree that is a good thing v
@Lost_in_the_Woods Never in my life have I ever said or claimed that all white people were racist, lol. And no. First off we're not just talking about random men approaching someone on the street. We're talking about why someone is single. To say one is single simply because theyre "too beautiful" is pretty shortsighted. I've never claimed that "most white people" were racist. I grew up in Upstate Ny and have never had a problem with my skin color.
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No it's not your skin color.
Maybe it's just you need some confidence is all.
Don't turn down dates if you get them and ask guys out.
Don't let this race baiting bullshit get the best of you.
I've dated black women before.
There's no difference between a white girl or black girl.
They both can be sweet and they both are HUMAN!!
You are probably just being too picky and only accepting attention from the players and the CHADS but passing on the good relationship guys.
You are pretty enough,
You have a beautiful figure,
You are 25 (if info is correct) so you've had a lot of years to find good relationship guys.
You are probably being so picky that you only accept attention from the real womanizing players.
You are hotter than a firecracker but I suggest that you lower your attractiveness standards and not expect the dude to be as hot as you are….. not physically, at least. Give a slightly nerdy guy a chance but pick a smart nerd who likely has a bright future. He doesn’t have to be unattractive, just not “hot”. He will likely worship the ground that you walk on.
Why, does your skin colour smell bad, or something? I can't say anything about your personality but, looks-wise, any guy that wouldn't go out with you is married, retarded, embarrassed about having such a small dick, gay or dead! I nearly married an Indian girl that's darker than you. You just look like you've got a really nice tan.
Everyone has a preference, doesn't mean they even realize they have it.
I can somewhat relate to you, just guys wanting sex... nothing serious. I don't ever compare myself in a what if world, cause that would be too depressing. I just do the best I can to go on the prowl myself, for something besides sex.
This question is a bit heart-breaking and, as I have mentioned numerous times with you, you are a rather attractive young lady.
That said, my hypotheses as to the answer to your question are somewhat complicated and personal to you, so I'd like to answer your question, but I'd rather do so privately in a conversation with you.
So, if you like, PM me. We have PMed before, I believe. I know that I can PM you.
Message me
I will try later. I am 6 hours behind you and working at the moment, so I may need to wait until tonight (which, for you, means you'll likely be asleep).
I have begun a PM conversation with you.
Just value yourself and only date high value guys who know your worth. You're beautiful and you're not the problem. Remember what I said about "birds of a feather flock together". It's not right but that's the way it's always been. People are dumb.
It's only a matter of time and being in the right place. Maybe you're looking for guys in the wrong places
I always meet guys on tinder or Instagram
My work place is full of girls
That is not a place to find anything but thirsty fuckboys. Go somewhere where intelligent people congregate
My friend found her boyfriend after he slid into her DMs (Instagram) why do you think it’s better to meet people in person?
Why do I think it's better to meet people in person? Are you serious?
Where do you suggest meeting someone then? As I said before my work place is only women
There are other places to meet people besides work and online. Pick one
You are very attractive, and if I were to meet you I'd probably ask you out if I knew you were open to it. And yes I'm white. Trouble in this case however is that it's not just a matter of living in different states, but you are in the UK and I'm in the USA.
Very sorry that you aren't being treated as you deserve.
Aw thanks, means a lot. Do you find my body attractive?
Face eyes and body are very attractive.
You show a lot of cleavage. And a lot of skin in general. Maybe that’s part of the reason that guys see you as a sex object. Your outfits are very cute, stylish, and are flattering on you, but they could be giving off the wrong impression to guys.
Escort?
As someone in the UK, I'll be serious with you. Just from the pictures you posted, you come across as an "easy catch", for the lack of a better word. Dress classier. Show off less. Have standards. Why would a guy marry you when get what they want with you for free? Respect yourself. It has nothing to do with race. There are similar white and Asian girls.
Don’t you think it’s a bit wrong to judge a girl based on what she’s weeding though? I know loads of girls who show some much cleavage but are virgins and then there’s girls who dress classy and sleep around
I have found that the way a person dresses says a lot about their character. If all dresses are equal, would you wear a bikini or this to work? Ofcourse not... unless you work in certain industries. I've always judged women based on what they wear and their overall presentation. It has worked in my case. Sure, there are exceptions here and there but there is quite clearly a positive correlation. That's undeniable. Let's not talk about other girls. Are you a virgin?
No I’m not a virgin but I have a body count of 4
I’m not into one night stands but I love showing off my curves because I constantly get told I have a good body. There’s girls who dress revealing and can still pull a boyfriend
So I was right. You did four dudes, dudes who possibly came after seeing the curves you showed off. If you show the curves off. Guys would come for the curves. That'll be all that's in their mind. That's the first thing they'll grab when they get the chance. If you love a guy, why show off your body to other guys? Show it to him. I know because I dated a girl like you. I gave her a chance. Think of it like this: why would a classy dude make you his wife when he can find a younger, more feminine girl if you're putting it all out there. If he can get it for free after a few dates, why marry you? There are things I can't tell you publicly but you're willing to at least listen. That's a good sign. I'll be real with you. You have 5 more years at best in the dating world where you can land pretty decent guys for long term relationships. After 30, it gets hard for women or they end up sextoys. Don't let that happen to you.
Nope it’s not because of your skin colour, I know plenty mixed colour couples.
I was one of them at one point.
A lot may come down to your area.
Some are harder for anyone.
What types of social scenes do you go to?
Was it different say in 2019 and earlier?
Very pretty girl, you obviously haven’t met the right person.
Trust me you are stunning, I’m sure you will make any guy happy just mot met him yet, please don’t rush into a relationship. Take your time and he will come along.
Aw thank you 😊
No problem, happy to help ☺️
I think the area you live in is just not racially varied enough, which might be causing that, yeah. However, the area I live in is VERY diverse, and my school even more so (about 30% black, white, Mexican each, last 10% is mixed & other) and while people do tend to date people from their own race, I've seen plenty of people dating across races.
If some guy rejects you because of your race, they don't deserve you. Take your time finding somebody who respects and loves you for who you are!
You look great, you just have to keep your chin up and keep your eyes open. As long as you try your best to be a good person then you will eventually find a person who loves you for you physically and personality wise
I’ve usually dated blondes in the past, but you have extremely attractive features, you appear very feminine, the way you do your hair frames your facial features very well and you appear to take care of yourself and are thin.
Unless you have an off putting personality or are setting your standards too high, I don’t know.
I kinda doubt it’s a race thing. It’s possible I guess- I don’t know what the stigmas are like in the UK..
If you want something to be true, you will look for reasons for it to be true.
It’s not because of your skin color. That’s excuse making.
How about choosing men differently? Not saying you are, but don’t dress like a ho. Your self esteem seems fragile. I’d work on that before you decide to take on a relationship, don’t you agree?
How can a bad self esteem affect a new relationship?
You have to love yourself before you can give love to someone else. Now, on the very rare occasions, certain men (in your case) will help you grow as a person and you learn on the fly.
It’s really hard to point out specifics because I’ve never seen you in person.
But here it goes.
Confidence is crucial when it comes to your love life.
When you feel bad about yourself, your insecurities can start to creep in to the way you act with your significant other and that can have a negative impact on both of you.
Plus, low self-esteem can distort your perception of your partner
Having low self-esteem can also make you more anxious about your relationship in general. “You may be afraid that your partner will leave you, or you panic over other things that others wouldn't think twice about
Well... people tend to favour those of their own race especially when considering long term so you might be on to something. I wouldn't get disheartened though, you're a beautiful girl.
guy just want to have fun, oh guys they wanna have... fun
Hmm then why are guys my age in serious relationships then?
A fuckboy will message 100 girls a week. A guy who wants a relationship will find one and keep it.
So, it's always going to be 99/100 fuckboys.
I don't know why people are like that.
@Lost_in_the_Woods what about guys who have been in serious relationships before and are now single? Isn’t there a chance they will want to find another serious relationship like their previous one?
Of course. There are also guys who haven't been in one before and even guys who are sick of hookups and are looking for something different.
There are just less and they aren't as in your face as the other guys.
In all fairness, there are a lot of white people that do fetishize us black people and believe it or not, it is disgusting.
I wouldn't say it's you being black as the reason you're not getting dates. Perhaps you have a type that you don't notice you or maybe you have a Stern face all the time.
Doubt it.
Maybe it's not your looks and it's something else?
I bet it is her looks. Guys are afraid to ask out 10's because they usually say no.
But, aren't you the same person who said all white people are racist? 🤔
That obviously isn't true if you read the comments on her and you obviously know that if you don't think her skin color makes her less likely to be attractive to guys who want a relationship.
Just pointing out that most white people aren't racist. We should all agree that is a good thing v
@Lost_in_the_Woods Never in my life have I ever said or claimed that all white people were racist, lol.
And no. First off we're not just talking about random men approaching someone on the street. We're talking about why someone is single.
To say one is single simply because theyre "too beautiful" is pretty shortsighted.
I've never claimed that "most white people" were racist. I grew up in Upstate Ny and have never had a problem with my skin color.
Sorry, must have been someone else.