We are both in our twenty’s, but he is a lot older (early and late 20s). He originally added me on LinkedIn for work, he’s trying to help me get hired. He added me on FB and messaged me, and he also asked for my number and started texting me. He texts me almost every day asking how I am and sends me good morning texts. He also asked for my weekend plans. How do I kindly reject this dude without being mean if he likes me and it’s not in my head? I really don’t want to have sex with this dude for a job. I am talking to another guy rn and I am paranoid he will think that I’m some big hoe texting and talking to a bunch of dudes at once or he will talk to this dude since they are both in the same meetup group. Please tell me any and all advice in this situation.
Sounds a bit of a pest.
Yes sounds like he likes you, however it’s a bit OTT.
try being polite with him, explain its a job you are looking for and that you don’t have an interest in anything else at moment, especially anything guy related or dating in general.
As @kerrylouise says just get straight to the point.
make it clear and obvious.
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Yes Id say so, and you need to tell him that you only want to be friends.
Yes definitely.
Just be polite and send him a message letting him know that you appreciate his help but that your not looking for anything romantic with him.
Sometimes you just have to be straight to the point
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