Why are guys afraid of expressing femininity? (Page 2)

Question

Why is this such a iffy subject for guys? If a guy wants to show off his feminine side why should he be ridiculed for it? Women who show off their masculine/Tom boy side arnt ridiculed nearly as much. Just let people be who they are. If a guy is at heart more soft and feminine let him be himself. We need to be less judgmental and more accepting of such things. Like it’s ok if a guy cries. Don’t judge him for showing emotion.

Anonymous · Answer

Women who show their masculine side are absolutely ridiculed as much as men who show their feminine sides? But either way I think it depends on what extremes each gender is going to in order to show their opposite sides. Like men who wear dresses... you're doing too much. Or women who wear baggy pants with boxers and sag them... just calm down lol

Kabluie · Answer

i'm not afraid, i haven't painted my nails in awhile though. Black or glow in the dark marshmellow white are my favorites on hands and toes.

grega239 · Answer

Why is it such a problem if we don't? Why is everyone so obsessed with making men do this? Men obviously dont want to do it , so leave it be.

bean2k21 · Answer

March on Washington and complain about my low paycheck and how all guys are assholes? No thanks.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

"Women who show off their masculine/Tom boy side arnt ridiculed nearly as much." You just gave the answer.

Shy_Steve · Answer

Because we want to be seen as attractive by You Girls and I have heard Masculinity is usually more attractive to most Women.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Crying isn’t feminine. You picked a bad example

Anonymous · Answer

Because for the vast, vast, VAST majority of guys, doing so is rarely helpful to any conceivable aim that they may have and is oftentimes detrimental to it.

Pixel343 · Answer

Straight, 28, male, wears girls pants. femininity is a notorious turn off to most girls. YOU wrote the rulebook on that one bitches.

notwoke · Answer

Soy boys and Nancy's should be beaten to a pulp to keep society from falling apart

Mediterraneansoul · Answer

First thing is respect is out of the window. Second it's not all guys have a feminine side. In fact the vast majority have a masculine nature si accept them as they are

Anonymous · Answer

Because it destroys your chances of being seen as a man by women for good.

BillyBalls · Answer

Why can't guys just be guys. Why do some some people want to turn little boys into pussies?

AdithyaR · Answer

This is so true. I guess it's cause the expectations that toxic masculinity places on them.

_no_one_ · Answer

I don't know why people judge me for liking dick n balls like bruh

awkward_author · Answer

We're seen as weaker when we do. The explanation is that simple.

Kiran_Yagami · Answer

Easiest question to answer in the history of this website. Because women are turned off by feminine men. They find them repulsive. Duh.

Anonymous · Answer

We aren’t afraid, we just don’t do it around women. Since women judge and shame us on how we are.

fjb2021 · Answer

When you talk of Trannies breaking world records fuck off.

yucel_eden · Answer

Because I’m not feminine?  I’m a very masculine guy, it’s who I am…

cloud9vortex1234 · Answer

That's not something you force. Guys are less wired to be like that.

NorthwestRider · Answer

I am not plus people who make fun of feminine guys are triggered snowflakes

Anonymous · Answer

That's like asking why are women afraid of being fat and ugly. Because society tells them to every minute of every day.

msc545 · Answer

Most men do not want to be thought of as being gay unless they really are.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

The vast majority of men aren't even as emotional as you think.

iamacuriousguy · Answer

because it makes them look like a pussy and being made fun of

Deserter · Answer

They shouldn't, it's just how many express it is so extra so it ends up coming across as cringe

UdontNeedtoknow · Answer

Because were not a female or gay. Your either masculine or your not. This is the way.

Naughtyboy71 · Answer

Stay strong you better than that nothing wrong with crying showing emotions

Genief · Answer

Naah m not. I wear my speedos. And m sure I look more feminine in it due to lack of bulge but I don't care

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Why would we want to express femininity? There’s nothing desirable about being feminine, unless you’re a queen

Anonymous · Answer

WTF does femininity or masculinity mean? No, don't tell me. I don't care.

guyguy97 · Answer

Because there males not fe males why would they want to be more feminine

Qdbrown · Answer

Because it's not natural.

PeterCharlie1991 · Answer

I've cried many times im not ashamed of it

Mac-One · Answer

Because my wife would not approve.

Gosselinfan · Answer

I want a man not a woman

Babygirl_S · Answer

Why should guys be feminine?

Baredog69 · Answer

Ahhhhh because it's feminine. 🤷

annabananna · Answer

The dandy can be so hot.

wowzao23 · Answer

id rather want to express masculinity

Lisa0203 · Answer

I think it's ok but guys are different than women.

anylolone · Answer

Because women don't react well to it.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

it comes sometimes out when I'm drunk with friends

Abinav69 · Answer

We don't count them as men

Canada2 · Answer

What if they don’t have a feminine side.

andy530 · Answer

Culture tells us we are weak if we do

Anonymous · Answer

Because they are not females

EnglishEuropean · Answer

I'm not. I'm afraid of getting my head kicked in.

MJtheCoach · Answer

Now you’re still trolling!!

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Femininity is not a man trait

Anonymous · Answer

Because I'm not feminine

Anonymous · Answer

Coz guys don't have a pussy!

SimpHunter007 · Answer

Because it's gay.

May_Summers · Answer

Its better that way

noohair · Answer

Stigma

Anonymous · Answer

cuz its gay

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah be yourself

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know.

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