My partner says he’s unbothered by sex in general is it just with me or everyone?

[Anonymous]

Before he met me at 18 he went 6 months no sex. And only met someone new cos it came to him.

Although he went out his way to meet me.

It’s been 6 years and he claims he’s unbothered by sex and always has been and can go a really long time without it.

Is it me or is he just like that?

It’s with me he’s unbothered

He’d have that with anyone

[SueShe]

It is not as uncommon as you think that people are uninterested in sex in general.

Don't think it is just you but if he was able to control himself for that long, that means that sex has a low priority on his list and that he is perfectly okay not to be sexual with anyone.

As a matter of fact, those people that prioritize other aspects of life rather than sex are becoming increasingly rare because society sexualizes everything, from food to clothing and everything in-between.

It is almost impossible in our time not to be subjected to sex and pornography on a daily basis, be it on the internet or in the printed media and TV.

To sum up: It is not just you. This guy is a gem!

[PrettyPriya]

My apologies to the asker...@sueshe I have an unusually high amount of spammer accounts that are assigned to follow me active. They are asking first questions with one account and spamming with another.

Of course, I have taken action by hiding the spamming comments. I wanted to bring this to your attention as I have never seen so many doing this.

[PrettyPriya]

I also have noticed something with your account... shall I say happy birth-day? 😊

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya You can always send the link to me and I shall take action on those spammers. I have not (yet) seen too many suspicious post.

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya Darn, is there nothing I can keep secret on this site?

Thanks for the wishes. It's touch to reach a new decade. It's time to step on the brakes now :-)

[PrettyPriya]

If you view the first question feed, you will notice a few questions about fasteners and tensile strength, etc. One account is asking the question, while another answers with the advertisement.

I have taken what action I can on the comments. The questions are still there as they are technically questions.

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya I have indeed seen some of those questions but as long as there is no concrete address or phone number and that the asker does not mention a specific company, I cannot do anything about it.

I did hide some in the past but most of them were reinstated by GaG and I got reminded that my action was not justified.

[PrettyPriya]

@SueShe I completely agree! They are legitimate questions. This particular spammer is more sophisticated than others. The question asker posts and then an entirely separate account answers with the advertisement.

I have naturally hidden those in violation of spamming. I just wanted to bring this to your attention that they are coming from every direction, should I not be available.

Now, onto more important matters... All of that cake I made from the other day is still frozen and ready to be defrosted. Should your iceberg pass mine, I will make certain to have some ready. I do have to admit that I have eaten a few pieces. Luckily, I had made so much for all of that gentleman's birthday (s) the other day that I have plenty left.

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya I am trying to start my snowmobile because I can spot your iceberg in the distance. I think the carburetor froze. I will have to use my Huskies but they are not too keen to freeze their tails in this miserable weather.

Perhaps you can throw a frozen piece overboard and I shall take my fishing line to catch the floating cake. Thanks anyway for sparing a slice for me. I am sure I will enjoy it and gain a few pounds eating it. I know you are not stingy when it comes to cutting slices...

[PrettyPriya]

@SueShe Naturally, I am happy to send some to you. May you enjoy the day (and the cake). Always my pleasure. 😊

[Slartybartfast]

Very FEW men are the typical misandrus stereotype portrayed in the media.

Selection bias (creeps and players) constantly hit on women and get more dates because of this than the good men, who while in the majority, are unlikely to approach in this misandrus witch hunt culture because of the same stereotype!

So good women wind up only getting approached by the worst men who are a tiny minority that still approaches and believe the stereotype which just makes it harder for them to find a good man because good men are taught not to exhibit the very behavior that makes players successful.

It

[DaveJord]

I think he's definitely not a norm type of guy... I definitely do not think it is you. But if you are not sexually compatible or this is causing you anxiety then I would consider other options.

I have dated women like this, and really tired to make it work, it was never was very fulfilling, it never lasted, and they were not the best types of relationships. She always seemed emotionally unavailable to me. Its honestly no way to live if you are experiences these types of feeling, the chances that he will change are very low.

[Citizenkirk]

So you're saying that he's unbothered with abstaining from sex for a period of time I suppose that's good as long as he enjoys it when he's with you.

[spartan55]

So this is just coming to the forefront after SIX years? That doesn't really make sense.

[boggboss]

He was like that before u so ofc thats just him lol

[Jay3344]

A lot of people are like that by either necessity or just a lower libido. It varies from person to person.

[Honesttguy]

Asexual, low libido. 6years u guys married now?

[Avicenna]

I'd assume he's like that with everyone

[Iron_Man]

Weird dude

[In_Trance]

Just you