My girlfriend flirted with a waiter and this is what I did? (Page 2)

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My girlfriend was blushing and flirting with a waiter one night at dinner, I didn’t like it. Instead of being jealous and upset I did something different. I said to my girlfriend: “you were pretty flirty, you obviously kinda like that guy. why don’t you have dinner with him tonight?” I whistled the guy over and asked if he was single and would like to date my girlfriend. I asked for his number for her and even offered my seat at the booth so they can get to know eachother. My girlfriend and the waiter were super uncomfortable and embarrassed!  To me it was historically funny. Was I a Dick? Probably. I felt like that was a different approach, funny for me, harsh for them. Do you guys think that was a good way to make sure she doesn’t do it again?

boobliker · Answer

you were being a bastard we all flirt with each other some people don't see it as anything than fun and it helps the world go round, so think next time you are talking to a girl am I flirting? ? ? ? ?

DonkeyDan · Answer

Yeah pretty funny, but would have been even funnier if they'd taken you up on your offer and you were out on your ear.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

And after she made her order with the waiter you still made sure that she saved the last dance for you. Good for you, bro; but if a girl did that to me I'd put out an ad in the newspapers for her place in my life (as girlfriend)!

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

You are right that you weren't jealous and upset because you were very jealous and very upset. It was also quite immature. Instead of talking to her like a rational person you chose to humiliate her. You have a lot of maturing to do.

awkward_author · Answer

I really don't think it was. Quite immature if you ask me.

Anonymous · Answer

You should have taken her home and asserted your sexual dominance over her by givng her a fcking she will never forget...

StephBelsten · Answer

It sounds like she took it in good faith but my God did you toe the line lol

Anonymous · Answer

My dad will have waitresses flirt with him a lot and he’s so autistic he never even notices 😂 he acts friendly and so sometimes my mom gets jealous even though he’s not at all interested in anyone else.

exitseven · Answer

You did a really stupid thing. I don;t blame your girlfriend if she dumped you and dated the waiter.

romantic6655 · Answer

You're supposed to show her your jealousy.. Friendship is an exception for your girlfriend.. What you did to the waiter and your girlfriend is very bad and ugly.

termanator · Answer

I really think you did well, most men don’t have the balls to do this because they’re feminized beta males. All the women are just trying to keep the appropriate response from getting out , in my opinion

cookiecrusher · Answer

Why stop there?
Maybe let them bang, you know, see how they feel😅

Would have made her my ex on the spot.
That is just disrespectful.
Would have caused no drama, just told her bye and walked out. No need to waste my time.

Voodoo69 · Answer

I would have just paid my bill, taken her and dropped her off at her house and ended it. No if’s and or buts. I have zero tolerance for that.

Anonymous · Answer

Leave her as soon as possible. Don't believe it's only that there's more happening and probably happened you can avoid what's coming by knowing what's coming it's coming so save your energy and heartache and your cash and leave or you will get a bad damn hit from her.

Don't believe women who say flirting is not cheating I don't he'll know on what planet they're living. Don't ask a fish how to catch you ask the fisherman. Trust your gut back your things

Staximus · Answer

I think you handled it the best way. I would have stood up and said "you can have dinner with the waiter, you seem to like him more than me" and walked out.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

You should have just gotten up and walked out. If a bitch is going to give you those kind of shit tests, dump her ass. First time. No exceptions. No excuses.

DWornock · Answer

Women obtain a boyfriend and immediately start looking for an upgrade. Then when they are certain, they pounce. Therefore, women cannot be faithful unless they believe that they cannot get an upgrade.

Anonymous · Answer

It felt more like a sketch scenario. But it's funny, i like it.

Neko_Nya · Answer

The responses some people are giving are absolutely mind boggling

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

Embarrassing her is fine as you two can sort your problems later but the waiter had nothing to do with this

May_Summers · Answer

Haha very good. But if the waiter didn't flirt back, he was not in the wrong

Luopio27 · Answer

Better that than resorting into violence. I hate girls, I despise girls who let, encouridge and enjoy guys fighting over them or their entertainment.

SHB84 · Answer

You should have got up and left her there. To just disrespect you to your face... would have been quicker for her just to spit in it.

Valso · Answer

You went too far as in too much trouble for an unfaithful bi7ch. I would just stand up and walk away and never ever call her again.

Anonymous · Answer

Clever move on your part. Either she learned something from that or she's history soon.

MountAverage · Answer

Sounds very immature and passive aggressive of you.

Massageman · Answer

Nice story of three adults not acting like, uh, er, three adults.

joeldalton · Answer

I'll take things that didn't happen for $300, Alex.

Joker_ · Answer

It's funny knowing that your girlfriend will break up with you soon

Anonymous · Answer

It's entertaining but what's the aftermath for you? What if you ended it with "ok I'll take her back if you don't want her" sort of shtick otherwise just a stalemate.

driven159 · Answer

I would not say a thing just that would be the last dinner date It's like going on a date and they are on the phone the whole time no respect for you

whosnumber1 · Answer

it's a bold move. I like that you had the confidence and the balls to pull it off but you definitely brushed on being a dick.

BaldAvenger · Answer

That was Fantastic!!! She may not do it again when out with you but watch out for ladies night!!! She may not come home til morning.

NachoDaddy · Answer

Literally all you had to do was keep calm, tell the waiter that's your girl and address it calmly later with her so yah... Dick move.

Anonymous · Answer

Until you realize girlfriend are a myth, none of this matters.

Juxtapose · Answer

You both were shitty to each other, fuck. You should breakup.

AndrésC64 · Answer

That was a dickish thing to do. I'd be pretty pissed if I were her.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

I don’t know. Everyone has a different perception of flirting and just talking.

Jay3344 · Answer

Funny but maybe not the best approach to the situation.

AkshiJanjua · Answer

I would have rather left than making a scene out of it. But yeah I wouldn't date someone who flirts with waiter in front of me

Zygum · Answer

As you flirted with waitress, so your girlfriend followed your action, so be cautious because women are too jealous

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I would’ve just got up and left that girl. If she’s gonna waste your time, then don’t give her a ride home and just leave early

Anonymous · Answer

She take revenge on you for embarrassing her by banging the waiter in front of you?

888theGreat · Answer

What would be more funny , would be if he sat down and ate

Fuentes · Answer

Lol i woulda dumped her after i dont got time for childish women

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

I once had a girl tell me I had a nice ass in front of her boyfriend.

capman70 · Answer

Good for you Bro ,   I have no tolerance for that Drama BS !

Anonymous · Answer

Seems impulsive, which usually feels good but doesn't workout in the long run

itsjustlew · Answer

Have you considered that she might just be nice?

Anonymous · Answer

It was a dick move but I bet she will never do that again

Jamie05rhs · Answer

You're playing with fire, dude.

spartan55 · Answer

Not the way I would have handled it.

Phoenix98 · Answer

No one was in the right in this situation.

Subarugirl · Answer

No that was immature and childish

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

You showed you were jealous

fonduegirl · Answer

Imagine if she were me, polyamorous

ADFSDF1996 · Answer

You did nothing wrong.

Carolus · Answer

Dude! You deserve a medal. She got served.

Citizenkirk · Answer

You and your girlfriend got problems

Desconhecida · Answer

It was a dangerous game, sir.

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