Why does my baby dad drive past my house at 2 am when he's Got a new girlfriend AND a non molestation order against me after getting with her?

[Louisej]

[caring__1]

It appears he's doing it to prove he can or to feel the power of impacting you when he continues to push your buttons. If he's going to waste his time doing this, see it as proof you are better off without him. This is his loss, not yours. Just focus on your life and enjoy happiness. There's no reason to catch the garbage he chooses to throw your way.

[ragooo8]

Depends. Maybe her house is on his route home. My ex accused me of following her and trying to intimidate her, she litteraly was overtaking me and I cruised home in the same direction I was going. I had a dash cam.

[caring__1]

@ragooo8 I doubt there is no other way for him to get home other than driving by her home, unless they live in a town that has only one road. This is about power and control, not saying he'd need to drive 20 miles out of his way to take a different route.

[ragooo8]

Exes do check up on each other. From what she is saying he is checking up on him and he's had to get a non molestation order which is not far off a restraining order.

[Louisej]

@ragooo8 I live on a one road entry estate which is a one way system , it's one of those roads you'd only drive down if you know the area. I know he has no contact on my road nor does he work around my area.

[Louisej]

@ragooo8 also if you read the question properly it says "after he got with his new girlfriend". There is more to it than what I have put into the question. False allegations were made after he got with his new girlfriend hence the order.

[ragooo8]

You don't need to justify yourself to me. I can't imagine it's easy to get a non molestation order without overwhelming evidence espicially for a gut, if it was you'd have a restraining order against him. No contact that you you know of, could be knocking boots with a woman in your area.

[caring__1]

If all he's doing is driving by at 2am, don't bother to look outside at 2am. He'll quit the behavior quicker if you don't react to it, for that means he's lost his control over you.

[ragooo8]

He probably thinks she doesn't know.

[magiusX26]

what the hell is a non-molestation order? last i heard molesting is illegal no matter what. thats like "non-murdering order" or "non-stealing orer".

[Louisej]

It's an order by the court so that I can't contact him in any way. Nothing to do with molesting.

[PrettyPriya]

He is either trying to make you jealous or he is checking up on you. Alert the authorities if you have an order against him. Sounds like harassment.

[Louisej]

He has one against me (false) allegations to the police) he also keeps breaking up with his new girlfriend almost weekly.

[PrettyPriya]

Sounds like a keeper. Sigh. If you have an order against you that is false, can you go to the police and explain he is violating his own order? I don't know your local laws.

[Juliette1994]

He’s seeing what your doing. Do you have camera outside so this way you got it documented. Before you’ll end up ID.

[Louisej]

Yes I have a ring doorbell and this is how I've seen him drive past at different times and in different work vans.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

He's doing this to make you jealous of you see him with the new girl

[Naimgood]

I feel like everybody should have a mon- molestation order on them. Non molesting should apply to everyone

[ragooo8]

Checking who you got staying overnight. Probably worried you might set up with a peado, junky or douchbag.

[boggboss]

Playing games as of why impossible to know

[jahaims]

Mentally ill