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Everyday I see my boyfriend but he ALWAYS comes at like 9/10pm when I tell him it’s way too late? During the day he’s always with his friends and cousins and goes for food with them but he dosent seem to with me. I’m 4 months pregnant and even before pregnancy he never really did either hed just come over to the house and relax. Do I mention this to him! It’s staring to get to me now more because he can’t be like this when the child is born, seeing the child past 10pm at night? He knows I don’t like him coming past 10pm. I make food for him, wash his clothes and do a lot for him and even when he’s got food waiting at home he just takes the pi** to get here. I am a very kind person and understanding so I don’t really get angry I’ve just always been like this but I don’t know if he’s taking my kindness for weakness now. Also this is my parents house I’m talking about and my mom always says about how she has a rule to come before 9pm. When I move out I don’t want him to just come home at 10pm and use me for a place to stay.
am I being dramatic because of my pregnancy hormones here or is this valid? I get he’s busy but he could at least take me out or do things for me? I’m pregnant and I’m doing everything for him?
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No, your concerns are valid. It's understandable that you feel frustrated and concerned about your boyfriend's behavior. It's important to communicate your feelings and concerns to him in a calm and clear manner. Let him know how his behavior is impacting you and how you would like things to be different in the future.
It's also important to set boundaries and stick to them. If you don't want him coming over past a certain time, let him know and be firm about it. It's important that he respects your boundaries and takes your wishes into consideration.
In terms of him not doing things for you or taking you out, it's important to communicate your desires and needs to him. Let him know how you would like to spend time together and what activities would make you feel loved and appreciated.
Ultimately, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and the well-being of your child. If your boyfriend is not willing to make changes or respect your boundaries, it may be necessary to reevaluate the relationship and consider whether it is healthy and fulfilling for you and your child.
Why did you choose to make a baby with a guy like this? he isn't going to change.