I’m 16 weeks pregnant. When the baby dad found out I was keeping it he turned just crazy, he was coming to my house waiting outside for me to come out, calling me everyday telling me to get rid of it, saying little small threats about me and my family and calling my mom idiotic too. He was just crazy, he wouldn’t leave me alone he kept threatening to break into my house.
Only 7 Days ago he stepped up, not even 7 I’d say 6. During this time of him being absent and blocking me my mom planned a surprise scan. I had no clue up until the day. After 5 days of him stepping up she took me out and said you have a surprise scan I had NO CLUE until I was in the scan room. I didn’t want to know the gender but it was pretty obvious on the screen it was a boy. I called him 3 times to ask if he wants to know or to be a surprise, his phone was off. I text him saying ‘call me text me’ and he didn’t.
I just found out and wanted to know as I thought it would be a nice surprise for us both, I saw this in a good way and that he’d be so excited to know. Instead he called me a didkhead, slow, retarted, said that he’s not going to let me walk around with his kid and saying he hates me and that I’m a idiot for not asking him and that he wanted to have a gender reveal but I tried to ask? He’s literally ignoring me, I’ve sent paragraphs begging for forgiveness and he’s is not replying. Am I in the wrong here? He only stepped up 5 days ago before that he was threatening me to kill the baby. I still haven’t told him the gender but he’s still angry at me.
