Guys, Stupid question?

[Anonymous]

Long story short. Met a guy at a bar, talked for awhile. (Mind you I hit on him) Finally agreed to hangout. But I purposely came late, because I just wanted to Fuck tbh! He asked me if I was gonna spend the night and I did. Anyways this is what our situation is. I don’t even know why I am asking this but what are we doing lol. I also live an 1 hour 1/2 from him. Which makes it hard to really see each other. Our busy schedules don’t help. He made a comment that if I lived closer just maybe he would stay home more 🙄. We are very open about our side pieces but I haven’t heard much about them lately. I’m not a jealous person and we are not in a relationship. But why did he stop?
Did I send mixed signals?
Like WTF is happening.

[IMuser]

(from your comments it seems you like him)

He is not obligated to like someone he met in the club (wherever the one time thing occurred). Heck you may be just a side chick, a convenience for him.

If you want to spend time with him, try spending it non sexually (pro tip: go for bowling together. )

[Asker]

Honestly I thought this to. But I have seen him 5 days in a row now. I don’t think the distance brothers him and he still wants what I got

[IMuser]

Then you just need to talk to him

[Asker]

Ya it may be to soon. But I definitely will

[Anonymous]

You’re not worth the effort and hassle of dealing with the distance between you and busy scheduling.

In all relationships, one should ask themselves, “Is the juice worth the squeeze?”

He already got what you were throwing at him. You fucked.

[Honesttguy]

U guys are just hanging out whenever u have time to meet up so? I dont understand what so confusing

[Asker]

I am starting to like him and I don’t want to ruin it 😁

[Honesttguy]

If i agree to work for 3month, there's nothing wrong with starting to like the job or loving it, but agreement was made before for 3month.
You can try and propose new contract but decision will have to be made by both parties.

[LaNc3L0TT]

Why overthinking when you looked for one night stand, lol

[Asker]

Because it turned into like 4 night in a row lol now I don't know what to do about this and I don’t want to weird him out

[LaNc3L0TT]

Do you mean that you start to feel something about him since you are wondering where is he or what is he doing? :D If you start to develop some feelings which you didn't want go away from that "one night stand" things with him or just talk with him about it.

[Asker]

I want to but I feel it maybe to soon. And I know dudes don’t like that type of stuff so I am waiting for him. He does make comments but what guy doesn’t!

[LaNc3L0TT]

You need to work with yourself on "what do you want" you are not forbidden to like someone and during intimacy you are getting that "boost" to get feeling for someone. I would advice you to contact him and see each other and talk about it. I'm afraid if you keep doing "one night stand" you will fall more for him and suffer more if he doesn't share same feelings for you.

[Klinklins]

Okay. He is just a random guy. Tell him straight your intentions

[Asker]

Here’s the issue I do like him now lol like a lot. We have seen each other a ton since then. And I don't know like should I just continue doing what I do? Or is it to soon I don't know

[Klinklins]

Lol let him tell you first. Give him hints

[Asker]

This was my plan thanks for the help

[In_Trance]

did you send mixed signals? duh...

you purposely did!! TF

[Asker]

Yeah sweetheart we aren’t in our 20s dating is different here in your 30s.

[In_Trance]

apparently not... because you're posting the same question that a girl in her late teens would

[Asker]

Lol you got a point!

[spartan55]

What do you mean wtf is happening?

[FunkyMonkee]

Why did he stop what?