Why did he lead me on but he likes another girl?

[Anonymous]

it broke my heart especially when guys ( like my close friend ) lead me on by being flirty but they end up liking other girls

[spartan55]

How does a 'close friend' lead you on? Did he know you liked him?

[Asker]

I asked him who he liked and he said he liked this girl but the girl said that she wasn't ready for a relationship. He also said that he doesn't want to waste time on his crush when he could have dated so many other better women. It kind of makes it seem like he only wants a relationship.

[spartan55]

Okay, that didn't answer either of my questions.

[Asker]

my bad no he doesn’t know I like him.

[spartan55]

Well then it's impossible for him to 'lead you on'.

[Asker]

ok then

[spartan55]

You understand why, right?

[Asker]

yes I do

[spartan55]

So, are you going to let him know how you feel?

[Asker]

probably not. I don’t think he likes me.

[UniquelyBasic]

Flirting can be fun to do, and it doesn't always result in a relationship.