Why does this older guy at the gym make eye contact with me every time he seems me?

[Anonymous]

Okay I know by the sounds of it it seems like a petty question to ask, but I keep seeing this older guy look at me quite obviously. He doesn’t strike up a conversation or anything though.

[WhyMe247]

He’s attracted to you but is too scared to approach you.

[Asker]

By older I think he’s like in his 40s or so.
He follows a lot of attractive women on Instagram who are in their 20s. Kinda creepy.

[WhyMe247]

Sounds like he just wants to be with young women. Quite common for that age range.

[Asker]

LOL I look like a bitch at the gym though 🤣 I’m just there to use my machines and relax.

[WhyMe247]

I see a lot of serious women at the gym myself. There are some who are friendly, but not many. Your response is why I never talk to anyone. We’re (most of us) are there to workout - not to be stared at or hit on. Not worth being reported to the staff and potentially losing a membership.

[Asker]

Well the reason I’m a bitch is because a lot of people at my gym are just mean. I’m not afraid of guys approaching me at all 🥰
I go to a pretty Bougie gym so people are kinda stuck up.

[WhyMe247]

Ah, ok. I didn’t mean anything mean 🙂