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What would you do if an ex-coworker lied, and told your significant other that they slept with you? (Page 3)
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I would just see that as our relationships first test of trust
I would tell him the ex co-worker is lying. After that it would be up to my partner to decide who to believe & what to do about it.
own up to it. Usually , people don't make something up like that unless he has you confused with another worker
Unless that person tells someone else that they had sex with you to brag or make someone else jealous... which is what happened in this case
you should not contact him. Hopefully he will go away.
Well, I'm guessing he was let go, and for some reason, he thinks you had something to do with it. So he is trying to get back at you. And for your Husband, it comes down to trust.
What I don't get is why now? That was over a month ago..
something tripped inside his little mind
Interesting. Now you see the kind of dangers men have to routinely navigate. Not much fun is it?
Well if the man hadn't lied to his girlfriend by telling her we slept together, this situation could have completely been avoided. She thought it was the truth.
Who knows what was said between the two. She might have built up a story in her crazy mind and just wanted to lash out. You should contemplate litigation, even a strongly worded letter from an attorney will shake up some of her crazy. If she did this once she will do it again.
He told me that he told her that is what happened.. how was she supposed to know he was making stuff up.
You are missing the point. If she was upset with him she should leave him, not ILLEGALLY assume his identity (a felony) on Facebook, and send a message to your husband.
They he should take legal action since it was his identity, it's no longer my problem, it's theirs
He sounds like a whacko. I would say clear the air with your husband, ignore the guy unless he starts harassing you, then file a complaint to get a restraining order.
You need to seriously go after this Psycho Stalker Legally. Have PI or Police Officers and Prosecutors do the same.
tell your significant other... I am so glad that I have you, because I know you would never believe Lies about me.. kiss kiss (kill kill)
I love how you and everyone else automatically assumed the worst about this man.
and it ended up being the scorned ex..
Glad to hear that things are straightened out now with your SO!
it's pretty obvious even to a blind person. because he likes you and is jealous of your husband and he wants to have sex with you
Then why did he block me? If he wanted my attention you would think he would make it possible for me to contact him...
he blocked you so he wouldn't have to prove you didn't have sex with him and so he wouldn't have to confront you or your husband about it
I guess that makes sense... Im so pissed off though I am tempted to get his information, track him down and confront him about it because what kind of psychopath does that.. Im livid
you can't because if you track him down it'll make it look like you were stalking him and obsessed with him and you did have sex with him and he'll use that against you. you got two options you can either let the situation go or find a private detective and find out his schedule and have some guys beat the crap out of him or mind fuck with him by getting one of your female friends to pretend they're interested in him let him catch feelings for your female friend then screw him over by breaking up with him or something else like making him buy her expensive stuff the gold digger act then dump him
see this type of situation you want revenge not straight up confrontation a guy like this you have to calculate for his every next move. guys like this are pussies with no balls. and odds are he's been fantasizing about you and even jerking off to you which is why you need to get some sort of revenge on this guy but not the way you intend to do it otherwise it could backfire on you. or you could just let the situation go it's up to you but don't do it your way it'll make things worse on you
Well I am not petty and I am not an idiot. I don't revenge, I want justice and I know there isn't anything I can really do about it at this point, but I do enjoy the thought of putting him in his place.
i know and rightfully you should and he does need to be taught a lesson. it's best in this situation to just let it go because if you try tracking him down on your own it could give him proof that you and him did have sex even though you didn't and he could use that against you and he could say you're obsessed with him and stalking him and want to be with him he can twist the situation around in such a fucked up way that it'll make you regret trying to find him or look him up or anything. a guy like that is sick in the head and highly delusional
he's got a crush on you he likes you and wants to have sex with you and is jealous of your husband that's all it comes down to
you took your profile picture off?
good luck hope things work out for you
i thought about that too with you pursueing legal action but then it would just be a waste of time and money especially over something as frivilous and stupid as that. yes you may be able to get him on defamation and slander and hold him liable but will it be worth that time and money most likely not and most lawyers won't take a case like that unless it absolutely effects you physically and at your job and other means of life causing you significant punitive damages ie costing you money with his defamation and slander
because the burden of proof would be on him at that point and on you proving you didn't have sex with him but legally it wouldn't be worth the time or money to pursue legal action even if it is slander and defamation
saw your update.. that's a bunch of bullshit on his part he was lying his ass off when you confronted him about it
I believe him, I worked with him for 4 years and something like that would be out of character for him
it's your call if you believe him or not but coming from a guy's perspective and an outsider it sounds like a bunch of bullshit from him.. but hey you've known him for over 4 years so it's really your decision if you want to believe him or not
Find out where she lives, go there and make her tell the truth.
@Subarugirl "His accusation is entirely false and I have no idea why he would make such an accusation, or what is going on. I tried to look up his facebook and bring up the old messages but it would appear that he has blocked me on facebook."
I laugh at you and your pathetic situation.
False accusations. Hmm where have I heard that before? Oh yes all the false rape and sexual abuse accusations from thots and gold diggers.
Note it hasn't happened to me before you go jumping to conclusions. I'm smarter than you can ever imagine.
I don't have social media. Its all complete bullshit. Its designed to program your mind to be a slave to it. Just like tv, movies, games, romance novels, music.
Those are all fine as entertainment. Because that's all they are. But don't get addicted to them to the point that they take over your life.
@YesIWouldLikeFries Gag is social media
If you feed it, it will never go back under the bridge.
@Subarugirl no it isn't
@Buntyp There is no bridge. I destroyed it. You're attempt at being funny is cringe beyond words.
@YesIWouldLikeFries they literally describe gag as a social platform….. take that argument up with them
@Subarugirl That may be so but I don't use it as one.
@YesIWouldLikeFries right… because you're totally not arguing in the comments 😂
@Subarugirl I'm playing... as I said the internet is my playground 😂🤣😂🤣😂
@YesIWouldLikeFries to socialize... imagine that..
@Subarugirl I'm not socialising. I'm trolling.
@YesIWouldLikeFries which you can’t do with out a social aspect…
@Subarugirl Yes I can. You're assuming I view people as people. I don't. You're all just like an information repository. A book or a computer. I just extract whatever useful information I can. Otherwise you are useless.
@YesIWouldLikeFries your opinions doesn’t changes facts
@Subarugirl Keep blabbing your nonsense.
She would know its BS because I've only slept with literally one person.
I’ve only read your title. I would report that person to the boss and show my partner how serious I am about how this girl is harassing me
What is your employer supposed to do about someone who isn’t employed there any more
Oh right. Maybe I’d send an email to their current employer or even report them to the police. It’s kind of harassment lying like that
Lying isn’t illegal, and he isn’t harassing me, he didn’t even talk to me
Oh right just show your partner your phone. Just be like I don’t know who t f he is
Why would I lie? I do know him, I worked with him for years
Nothing. She would wreck em for that lol
I would just get me and my partner to block him.
Accusation is false? I don't think so.
Well it is, and there is no evidence to the contrary because it never happened. Libel and Slander are illegal here in Oregon so if he want's to play that game, and continues to do so, I will take legal action because I have nothing to hide.
Not care. Glad to hear everything worked out.
Maybe I'd sleep with the coworker as revengence