Not saying this rudely but right now you’re chasing him, and I think you know that deep down and it’s what’s making you hesitate, feel like a burden, wonder if you’re bothering him, etc, because it’s always you initiating everything. He expects you to start the convo every time, so there’s zero incentive for him to try, hence him asking why you didn’t reach out. It’s cool for you to do your part but he needs to do his too, otherwise it isn’t a friendship or a relationship because nothing is getting off the ground. So if I were you, I’d take one giant step back and see what happens when you go silent. Will it matter enough for him to reach out the first, second and third time? Or will he keep using a busy life as his excuse when you know that’s not true, he was doing fine with you in the beginning and just as busy.
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It’s probably bc he’s too occupied with work and like he said, he doesn’t have the energy. Sometimes people pull away when they’re tired or stressed but I think you should definitely talk to him about it. There’s nothing wrong with asking and it won’t come off as you asking for more from him, just ask for some clarity and ask if he needs some space for a bit
Go ahead, I'm sure he'd love to have that talk... 😂 😂 😂
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