How to keep myself away from him?

[Anonymous]

I have a friend who is my coworker. Earlier he told me that he found me attractive and maybe he loved me. But I'm married. We didn't talk to each other for 9 months. We just worked. He talked to me again last month. He said again today that he is still in love with me. I told him we could just be friends. I will not be unfaithful. He was sad and upset How to deal with him at work?

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I thought we could be friends. I didn't know about his feelings.

[Fireguy17]

That can be tough unless he understands and doesn't bring it up and accepts it.
If he doesn't and keeps after you then you have a few difficult decisions to make.
Keep ignoring him, tell him that he is making you feel uncomfortable and hope it works or you may have to report him to her.
Hopefully he will keep his thoughts to himself.
That would be best for both of you.

[Asker]

After the earlier confession he ignored me. That was very hard at work.

[Asker]

But now I don't know how he will behave.

[Fireguy17]

Time will tell.
Good luck.

[spartan55]

There won't be any possibility of being 'friends'. Dude sounds like a disrespectful dickhead anyway... he's 'sad and upset'? Too fuckin bad dude SHE IS MARRIED.

[Asker]

thanks. I asked him if you wanted a woman who was unfaithful

[spartan55]

Exactly, I can't stand people who don't respect other people's relationships.

[spartan55]

Thanks for the MHO!

[Guy13]

Head down. No discussion unless specifically Work. NO EYE CONTACT. No walking out together…

[one1wild00]

Sometimes its enough to just acknowledge and have fun with it knowing it's not going to go anywhere. depends on how mature he is, kid may have more trouble with it than a middle ager.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Give him blowjob..