How can I get him to stay away?

[Anonymous]

He doesn’t want anything serious, just wants to hook up. blocking isn’t working, he finds ways to keep contacting me. (friends with benefits situation for two years) I tried ending things (communication) he keeps coming back. We’ve both came to the conclusion that we want diff things but he doesn’t stop popping up and trying to come back. I’ve told him several times to leave me alone. He won’t respect the fact that I am no longer interested in being a friends with benefits.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Tell him you're blocking him on everything, and you don't want him coming around and you don't want it to come to that but if he keeps popping up, it's been suggested you get a restraining order... You can either save the text, or even send a registered letter, as proof that you made it clear to him you wanted him to stop contacting you or coming around you if it would really come to you needing a restraining order..

[OlderAndWiser]

Does your local jurisdiction have domestic injunctions against stalking? If you don't know, call your local battered women's shelter and ask.

[slatyb]

Stop responding and he'll get bored after a while.

[dustybiker]

Restraining order.

[In_Trance]

Be someone he wants to stay with