Is it gay that my boyfriend describes what his coworkers looks like?

[Anonymous]

Hello guys, my boyfriend and I been together for three years. He got a new job in construction and he’s a busy guy, anyways he tells me a story about what happened with his co workers and he will describe to be what they look like ex:” he has a beard and he has the same built as me blah blah” or he will say “ he’s a skinny guy or a he’s a bigger guy and he looks like this or whatever” I ask why he feels the need to describe the way they look and he says so I can get an idea what they look like. But I’m thinking is it gay and he likes their features so that’s why he describing it? Am I overthinking

[WonderBell99]

If someone is gay, it means that they are attracted to the same sex.

Did your boyfriend do something else other than this that makes you think he’s gay? Describing someone’s appearance is not gay. He is not checking them out. You don’t have to worry about anything. My guess is, he’s probably describing them so that you’d have a better idea of what they are like overall.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Gay = Being attracted to the same sex.


Does he exhibit ANY other behaviors that make it seem like he’s gay? No? Because describing someone’s looks, does not make them gay.

[Markie-mark]

What's the random pattern with gay guys and manual labor over here? Seriously

[boggboss]

U are doing some gold award overthinking

[Asker]

He does it a lot tho. He will describe his coworker depending on who he interacted that day he will describe what they look like is that normal? My friend said it was weird like he’s checking them out

[boggboss]

Its sounds just like somthing he does but it has nothing to do with checking them out it just gives u a better idea of what Saif person looks like lol your friend is a clown if they assume that means he is checking them out he works with them ofc he knows what they look like

[Asker]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[spartan55]

Girl what the hell are you talking about? NOT GAY.

[SnakeBoop]

how is that gay?

[lofii]

That's sussy