I’m attracted to my coworker who’s a teacher but I don't know if he’s gay?

[Anonymous]

He’s a nerdy math teacher and he dresses like a typical guy. He is very skinny so he wears skinny jeans here and there but it looks nice not feminine at all

he talks a bit nerdy… doesn’t sound macho.. he’s into sports and is a sports commentator

we have a lot in common… went to the same college… from the same state ect…

he’s not gay like “hey girl “ or has feminine hand gestures.

but I don't know

[Anonymous]

The way you describe him makes him sound as though he is gay. Not much you said about him really makes me think he’s manly. But the real question is do you want a manly man.

[Asker]

😔😔 a manly man but the last manly man I talked to was dl sexually attracted to transgender

[Opinion Owner]

I’m not sure if that’s a manly man. So have you put yourself in a position to meet a manly man? Me sing you’re very feminine, cook, clean, wife material, etc, etc?

[Asker]

Let’s just say I’m a hurricane

[Opinion Owner]

A hurricane as in your a complete mess emotionally?

[Asker]

Yeah…

[Opinion Owner]

I see. Well you need to straighten all that out first. Chances are w you like that you’re going to end up w a man who’s a hurricane of a mess himself or some dude who may take advantage of you.

[Asker]

That’s happened already

[Asker]

Do you think the guy is gay?

[Opinion Owner]

He sounds like it. But a lot of men these days look like they are the way they dress, walk, etc, etc.

[Staximus]

Just ask him out in a date already, we are all tired of seeing the same dumb question

[Asker]

Fuck offf

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I wear skinny jeans. Wearing skinny jeans doesn't mean your gay.

[Asker]

No not necessarily

[jazzy34]

So, you think he’s because…..

[jazzy34]

You think he’s gay because…..

[Asker]

Because I saw a gay man with lashes like his pics and follow him, he has a nerdy fem voice, I don't know my aunt says he gives gay vibes

[jazzy34]

Never make assumptions about people, no what vibes they give off. You could be totally wrong about him. Put your assumptions aside and get to know him.

[Asker]

But I was kind of in my feelings when he didn’t speak to me before leaving work.

[jazzy34]

You still shouldn't make assumptions about him.

[Asker]

Assumptions made… you think he is …

[jazzy34]

WOW. You are an idiot. You missed the entire point. You think he's gay "bEaUsE hE gIvEs oFf ThAt ViBe." Dumbass. -___-

[Asker]

My aunt said that not me

[Anonymous]

Stop repeatedly asking the same question.

[In_Trance]

You've asked this already

[mrshooiser]

Then ask him.

[Asker]

And why would I do that?

[mrshooiser]

Well you want to know if you have no desire your missing out.

[Asker]

That’s just not the way to go about it. I can’t just ask him

[spartan55]

@asker
Uh... why not? So stupid... stop looking for the Easy Button ffs.

[RedInnocent69]

Duh. Ask him out