I think my principal is attracted to the guy I’m attracted to at work?

[Anonymous]

How to know if it’s something between.. or if I’m just imagining

I don't know if my coworker is gay

[Anonymous]

It's natural to feel uncertain when you're navigating workplace dynamics, especially when feelings are involved. To figure out if there's something between your principal and your coworker, observe their interactions without jumping to conclusions. Look for subtle cues like prolonged eye contact, leaning in during conversations, or frequent, exclusive one-on-one meetings that aren't clearly work-related. Notice if they laugh at each other's jokes more than others, or if there's a certain chemistry or ease in their conversations. Keep in mind that a good professional relationship can also look like this, so consider the context. Is their interaction different from how the principal treats other employees? Are there any personal topics they discuss that go beyond typical work talk? As for your coworker's sexual orientation, it's not something you can definitively determine on your own, and it's not appropriate to speculate or ask directly. His behavior around the principal could be a sign of a close friendship, or even just a good professional rapport. The key is to gather more information through observation, rather than relying on assumptions or your own feelings of attraction. Ultimately, focusing on your own work and professional demeanor is the best course of action while you figure out the situation.

[Alex-Snow]

Maybe stay out of it for a while and just observe. What makes u think he is attracted to this guy? Are they close in age?

[Asker]

My coworker is 26 and our boss is 40

[Asker]

I’m 28

Boss in his 40s

[Alex-Snow]

Ummm is ur boss married or with someone.. how about the coworker?

[Asker]

I did peep my bosses facebook and it says he’s in a relationship but I don’t see any pics of with who…

My coworker I’m not sure… he’s a math teacher at my job and he’s a sports commentator and a sports talk person on the radio

[Alex-Snow]

If you are attracted to him find a way to do something with him. He may be just as lonely and is tired of solo sex and wants a relationship with someone like you! Message me if u want to chat about it more or stay on here...

[Asker]

Well I don't know if he’s gay

[jazzy34]

Here’s what to do:

• Focus on your GODDAMN job.

What kind of high school bullshit question is this? 🤦🏾‍♀️

[HollyK21]

You’re obsessed with gayness Chels. It’s not normal.

[Asker]

I’m nottttttttt omg you’re stalking meeeeee

[Asker]

You’re obsessed with meeeee

[HollyK21]

You post this every week, anonymously so how could I stalk you?

[Asker]

Because you know it’s me EVERYTIME

[HollyK21]

It’s pretty obvious lol

[Asker]

You still stalking me!

[HollyK21]

Stop projecting lol because we both know you know all about stalking. You’re just upset that I call you out whenever I see it lol oh well.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Girl just jerk off to some gay porn already ffs

[Asker]

Lmaooo you blocked me

Awww

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Girl, you been knew about this

[Asker]

I didn’t 😭😭