Why would a man get potentially infatuated with me if I am a boring basic girl?

[Anonymous]

I am not a stripper, exciting, wild, fun, evil etc. I heard that maybe he might be infatuated cause he thinks i would be easy to control.

I actually am easy to control. O. o having bad anxiety and riddled by fear most of my life, umm, yeah! Being docile and pleasing and wanting to be dominated by a man... Mmm yeah I'm pretty easy to control.

Then the lady said to run away. Umm... Now i am confused.

I just dont think im remotely that interesting to be having any man view me with rose colored glasses. I'm like a slave in a 21st century woman's body. I'm very base and dumb and not exciting or whatever.

[TrillXHippy]

How you ever considered that he can careless about what you are not? Not every freaking guy wants the same freaking thing so get that thought out of your head

[EaterPeter]

How about you start thinking of yourself a bit positively? You just acknowledge that a man is potentially infatuated with you, didn't you?

[Asker]

Only cause people online said it

[EaterPeter]

Thanq for MHO!

[Anonymous]

Because you see yourself as boring, he doesn't. As far as anything you've "heard", don't ever assume anything, especially negative things. Everyone's different.

[EnglishEuropean]

Without knowing any background at all, I believe there are certain men who are attracted to girls they consider "demure", girls who dress modestly and are submissive to men. It's not necessarily a bad thing if you don't mind being dominated by someone who's kind of a jerk and views women as basically chattels and baby factories.

[Anonymous]

Basic and boring are my kind of woman. There is less drama; and I get plenty of drama from my entertainment.

[Asker]

Whats your entertainment?

[Opinion Owner]

There is TV, movies, theatre, opera, ballet, concerts, sporting events, books, video games, card games, board games, bowling, arcades, mini golf, amusement parks, water parks, frisbee golf, golf, tennis courts, basketball courts, handball courts, racquetball courts, dances, parties, volleyball courts, podcasts, radio, and puzzles. As far as I can think off the top of my head.

[Asker]

Wow you have time for all that stuff?

[Opinion Owner]

No, I just listed everything that I could come up with as possible entertainment.

[Asker]

Well thanks for not being a guy that uses women as entertainment:)

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome.

[ColHathi]

Isn't that the type of girl that was seen as being the most attractive about 100 years ago?

[exitseven]

Or maybe he is attracted to you because you are actually pretty cool.

[Asker]

Nope. Not evil or exciting. I try to never lie, be nice and polite. Come on!

[Guy__]

I don't even find wild evil strippers attractive. You sound like a normally good girlfriend.

[exitseven]

no, I would see that as a good thing.

[Asker]

@Guy__ really? I heard that men find it hard to resist a wild woman.

[Guy__]

Some are just annoying. The ones that are boring are only like those hardocre programmed religious close minded nuns, I'm sure you're not one of them. The middle is perfect.

[Jamie05rhs]

Um, he likes you because you're not a wild, evil stripper! Duh. You're a quality woman!

[Jamie05rhs]

It's not about being easy to control. It's about being easy to live with. As in not driving him insane.

[Asker]

Hmm. I don't know i mean guys still dont ask me out. Even if they would want to live with me as you say.

[Jamie05rhs]

You're confusing. First you complain about a guy being infatuated with you. Then you complain about guys not asking you out. Which is it? 🤷

[Asker]

Oh... The infatuated guy is someome i know at work and people on here said he is infatuated cause i said he seems nervous around me. But of course im thinking maybe he just has anxiety and its not about me. He did used to compliment me a bunch of times which i found touching. But that was so long ago. Other than him yeah guys usually will try to hit on me sexually which i dont like or they play with my heart and I don't know if its on purpose or not

[Jamie05rhs]

What do you mean by "playing with your heart"?

[Asker]

Like hitting on me which arouses my emotions and hopes. I know men dont know or care (generally) how words affect women but imagine that its the same way visuals and touch affect men. Except its emotioal which is stronger/deeper.

[Jamie05rhs]

Are you the same person from the other question?

[JesseJayNeak]

Because boring basic girls like yourself are the ones we guys are looking for

[Asker]

For what? I mean i look very good... but my personality is basic.

[JesseJayNeak]

Basic, uncomplicated, easy to get along. That’s what we like

[Asker]

Well cooll thats what i like in a guy too... Those types never ask me out. I get hit on by guys who think cheating is ok and they wanna force sexuality on me.