Why do so many males here treat this site like a dating site?

[Snsl153]

I'm asking this, because I noticed that this question:
Girls, Why do people treat this site like a Dating Site?
is only for females to answer, but I think we need some answers from those who try to use GAG for this very purpose - the men.
Now I just have to figure out if this goes under 'Guy's Behaviour', 'G@G Community', or 'Dating'. I'll put it under 'Guy's Behaviour', because it IS a behavioural issue were dealing with here.

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Someone asked me in a private message what I mean by this, and this is what I mean. Many, especially those who are new here, act and carry on like this is the place to find the partner they've been searching for, and will ask questions and post images that indicate that that is the only reason why they're here. In my case it's the constant, nagging requests in PM's for information that is very personal and private, from people I've only ever wanted to have nice, interesting conversations with.

[Anonymous]

Probably for the same reason guy frequent strip clubs. There's a saying I heard a stripper say once "The joke is at a strip club you're going to get f***ed, but you're not going to get laid".
Where ever you get women teasing guys. You're going to have guys hitting on women. That's just reality. And with some guys it doesn't take a lot of encouragement. What I find comical is the guys that are so stupid that they see a "sexy" profile Pic and they foolishly think that's really the person behind it. Reality check! It's probably some 300lb. Dude. Guys! ask yourself, has a woman of that level EVER made a pass at you? A little common sense goes a long way. 🙄

[shortster]

It looks like a dating app on the app store and if you add other dating apps Google recommends this one with other dating apps. Plus actual dating apps are designed to keep you single and paying for their subscription.

[Snsl153]

So 'Google' is to blame.

[shortster]

Partially.

[ChrisMaster69]

Eeek to using this as a dating site.

Some of the Blue chat up lines really suck and well, I think your average blow up / sex doll would reject them.

personally you are better chatting up the pinks Pillow and getting the ‘Gos’ on her.

Also some of the info asked for is a tad cringy.

Then there is sheer distance with some, not sure what the thinking is with that.

’ive had no look in my town of 2,000 girls, so rather than look at town 10 miles away, will look at some place on other side of the world’ 🤦

[Snsl153]

Yes, why don't they look locally? That's what I'd do if I was in their situation. Maybe their neighbour is single.

[Anonymous]

If you've spent any amount of time on GAG you know that females post "how do I look" and "rate me" questions literally all day long, every day. So there's no question there are a lot of females here looking for male attention and validation. The other side of that coin, of course, is that they're going to get what they're looking for, and some women who don't want male attention are going to get it too.

It's not just on GAG. Everyone knows that men are the ones who are expected to approach females they are interested in, because females sure aren't going to do it. That's a blessing and a curse for females... a blessing for those who want it, and a curse for those who don't. It is also a curse for guys because we are the ones who have to take action but we don't know who is open to it until we try. But we don't have much choice in the matter because if we don't try, we will remain single our whole lives.

Welcome to the human condition.

[Snsl153]

Yes, I think that GAG should get rid of the 'How Do I Look?' section.

[HighValue]

I don't think it is a problem. Maybe they get to know someone and like their opinions, views, and interests so they become interested in them. I don't know. It doesn't bother me. I just be polite if I am not interested in someone after they express interest. It's not a big deal.

[athlete_7]

Males dont get matches lol. Plus here u can converse more converstaion is a key to healthy rel i feel . Plus dating apps are biased by looks i feel be it males or females. ( this isn't a dating app but i feel the ones who didn't get matches use this one like a dating app lol)

[KostasKouvalis]

I don't know. I don't treat is a "dating site" per say, but more of a site where I could potentially land a date. Why do I continue to do it despite countless fails, because it's the only website where I still have a chance of getting a date, that I trust. Even though everyone tells me, don't do this.

[nawtee_me]

Like any other social media site people will be people. Which means trolls will be trolls and some people both male and female will try to hookup. It is a given. Girls have asked for tribute pics wanting guys to cum on the girls pic and show them. Now is that because they like the idea of a guy masturbating while looking at them? Or, is it because they want to see what guys will do if they ask? I guess that is a question for the girls. Should be under girl's behavior...

[D4nielv]

Because this place makes it very accessible to interact with women, as opposed to dating sites where you need to "match" first. Combine that with anonymity and desperation and there's your answer.

[Slartybartfast]

Because men have to be proactive and work constantly to try to win female attention they don't have the privilege of just waiting around and rejecting people.

[UniquelyBasic]

You can meet someone in so many ways and it can happen in a way you least expect. If people form a bond on here and decide to take it further then I dont have a problem with that.

[Red_Arrow]

I think they are treating it like a "hook up" site. Looking for someone who will agree to sex, sexting, pictures, etc.

[ArtemisSilver]

Why can't it be used in that way? Do you gain something by demonizing men for wanting to chat with women outside of the usual Tinder style meat market? Don't objectify me.

[ArtemisSilver]

Yeah being wanted by lots of people sounds hard/terrible. Please tell me more about your struggle.

[TenkRealist]

I mean, I'm not against finding a partner on any platform but yeah. If you don't want it, you don't want it.

[Adronicus]

#1 I wouldn't date anyone on here (no offence but meeting randoms from the internet isn't the wisest choice), #2 those guys are desperate / thirsty & probably can't get laid.

[wa1t1ngFuture]

wow i just found out... i think this is some kind of site like quora

[Anonymous]

For starters you should make your profile private. It looks like anyone can message you... strange given your complaint.

[Anonymous]

Maybe since it's nearly impossible for men to get a single date they just treat any place as a dating site. Ironically tinder probably has the least luck but not every man likes one night stands or spam bots

[CuriousMufuxka]

Pussy is a powerful thing. In contrast is the male mind, thinking they will get a piece here. It's not impossible though..

[Creampiekarl420]

All dating apps are just a beacon for prostitutes and skank ho’s

[fred_durst]

i curious why that question removed
and to answer yours , they just want nudes

[LimitedBenefits101]

hi can we date?

[Snsl153]

No, we can't. :P