How do I get over my ex telling me his ex was way better than me hotter/and a better woman. I cry over it a lot?

[anonbrunette99]

[PastorJohn69]

I know it's hard to let go of hurtful feelings, but you really shouldn't allow this to resonate in your brain and especially not in your heart.
You have to understand it was meant to hurt you, and in the really shitty deal is, it was funny to them to hurt you like that.
99% of all ex's have said this, as if almost a standard to do after a breakup.
Realize that somewhere inside you, there is a part where their opinion of you still caries weight.
When two people come together in union to become one they are joined 100%. There is no seam as a sign where the two individuals were placed together.
So when the separation happens, you don't just undo the seam, it is a tear, part if you being ripped away that is list and a part of them come with you in the trade. That is why it's so painful.
Find ways of positive influence to fill the parts of you that fills gone, and allow those influences to silence the part of your ex you still own,
You have to look inside yourself and realize that you cannot subscribe to their influence and just try to make yourself find some kind of normal again, free of the hurt.

[ohshee]

First of all he's your ex because he didn't know how to treat you , he's your ex because he went out if his wzy to hurt you, he's your ex because you said fuck this i dont need tbis crap he can't tell me what to feel kr who i am he your ex because you know in your heart your the only one that can make you feel happy or sad , and you choose to be happy by yourself he's your ex because you know the difference between someone who loves you and someone who is trying to control you and manipulate you and you know the difference from somebody trying to take your kindness for weakness he blew it you need to go look in the mirror and say bro you blew it because I am hot I'm hotter than fuck and I don't care about you other ex-girlfriends that's why they're your ex-girlfriends because you treated them the same way and he will always have ex-girlfriends he will never be with anybody because he does not know how to treat women or even himself and understand he can only make you cry one time that's it then you know the difference between bullshit and bullshit and he's bulshit fastest way to get over it you go look in the mirror because you know it's not true tell him you say the same thing about him and your dog your dog was better looking than him and hotter and smarter and didn't have fleas

[boggboss]

Understanding your ex was a asshole that didn't deserve your love and if his ex was that much better he would have stayed with her

[anonbrunette99]

she left him cause he was a serial cheater I know I dodged a bullet in the end

[boggboss]

So hold that to your mind his words mean nothing because thats what he was

[Fireguy17]

What a jersey.
He my not be telling the truth and just wanted to hurt you.
Try not to dwell on it, and consider the source.
Sorry he did that to you, time will help.

[AviatorTom]

Tell him that your ex always got you off and you don't understand why he doesn't do that too. See how he reacts to that.

[Andres77]

Why would you continue to cry a month after you broke up?
Move on with your life.

[anonbrunette99]

Is it pathetic?

[Andres77]

I feel for you, there is something about him that you miss but if he'd say something so deliberately hurtful then he's not worth the time to miss. You've gotta move on.
Let's just say you're wasting yourself on something worthless.

[RuthlessAggression]

I don't understand why you listen to an ex. He's an ex.

He's likely just trying to hurt you BECAUSE you're an ex. Immature, right?

You're beautiful, by the way

[TallAnon]

People say a lot of stupid things, I would just disregard him as yet another moron.

[anonbrunette99]

I have never spoken to a man that was interested in me like that ever or even one I didn’t like cause it just doesn’t cross my mind to be nasty like that. I guess if he cared he wouldn’t of wanted to hurt me

[DWornock]

I don't believe you. I think you are a perverted guy troll.

[jahaims]

You shouldn't place value on words from people that you don't respect and don't respect you.

[clemdenim]

he is just trying to hurt you and you are letting it happen

[anonbrunette99]

He’s the first man I loved so it’s not just like it was some guy, if it was just some guy I’d be like ah okay cool nice one good luck getting her back buddy but it’s just cause there’s love there

[clemdenim]

i do understand, but it is up to you, as long as he knows he is getting to you he will continue

[Guardian45]

By DTMF, blocking and deleting him & all his sh! t!

[Pterodon]

Shame on you for allowing it by communicating with him at all. You’re not very bright are you?

[EaterPeter]

Make him your ex. Free him to go back to kiss that arse.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Wait this guy told you this and your still with him

[h3ll00]

remind to yourself that he is not in your life anymore

[Drumlin2001]

He's an ex for a reason, why care what he thinks.

[admles]

Cut all contact with him

[Anonymous]

This ex of his. . . how big were her tits?

[anonbrunette99]

Very flat chested but she’s far from ugly

[Opinion Owner]

Wow! From very flat chested to you--that's QUITE a contrast! lol! Sounds like you have at least two qualities that are far superior to his ex! ;-P