I'm so glad you clarified that at the end because I was gonna say not Cockyness which a lot of females seem to confuse confidence and cockyness but yes confidence like knowing she pretty/cute knowing that she isn't putting her self down it is attractive now when they are all around saying that they are too pretty too be with someone that not confidence that's plain up rude and nasty but yes confidence in a women is attractive
Confidence can be attractive , but to a guy that doesn’t really matter like it matters to girls liking guys with confidence , Guys mainly prefer a girl that is beautiful and caring and sweet and loyal , she can be shy as well and we will still be attracted toward her
It really is. But not confidence in an arrogant way, but in a courageous one. Women tend to confuse confidence with snobbery and thinking they're beautiful. No. Confidence is having a courageous behavior and even character and applies to different things than just talking to the opposite sex.
confidence, yes, nut not arrogance. I would also say that while it's an attractive trait, it's not the most attractive (a friendly, caring personality is what I would put at the apex). Part of what makes a confidence attractive is the annoyance caused by inecurity and clinginess.
Eh.. I feel like confidence is an easy catch phrase to go to when you're trying to give advice but you don't really know what you're talking about. It's like the low-hanging fruit for lazy people. ("Just be more confident!")
I think that confidence is an attitude. A good attitude is great, but actions are a lot more important.
Men dont care about women being confident or not too much. Thats a woman issue that they want super confident guys which dont really exist. I got news for you. those really confident guys are either malignant narcissists or they fake it and project it to get you. Everybody has insecurities in their minds. Some hide it well.
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Of course, men do.
Confidence usually comes with self-respect, and self-esteem and is typically found among women who are less likely to sleep around, have low standards, and generally be undesirable for long term. Never mind a partner who needs constant reassurance is a physical and emotional drain as even saying boo might have her in tears.
I used too but it ended in disaster and disappointment the few times I tried. What I actually do now is ride a dildo while sucking my boyfriend off or using a vibrator or this machine I bought so it's like there's another guy there the difference is somebody won't be intimidated by the other guy's penis being bigger and be unable to perform or the guys cumming long b4 I do. Like I let 5 guys do me one night, they all came in about 2 minutes of penetrative sex like WTF.
It's not nearly important to men as it is to women. I'd also disagree with that coach that it's the most attractive personality trait to a man. For that I'd say having a bright, cheerful, happy disposition is far more important. That bright, feminine energy is what attracts us like a magnet.
There is absolutely a difference between confidence and narcissism. If you show men you understand that difference, at least a few will feel more comfortable investing emotions and resources into a relationship with you.
Yes, there is nothing worse than a woman who needs constant reassurance that "nothing is wrong" or a woman who always asks, "are you mad at me?" when I have literally said or done nothing to make her think that. Insecure women are a huge turn off, as are submissive women.
Many women have a very misguided notion on exactly what “confidence” is? They think being loud mouthed, rude, overbearing or even being a bully is “confident”. Maybe it’s because many of them get turned on by men who act that way.
Yes (narcissism is different from it) and goes for both genders because a confident person means he/she is stable that is needed for relationship longevity. Though not all think that it's the one of most attractive trait.
REAL confidence... not 'posers'... although there IS SOME truth to the catchphrase to "Fake it til you make it!"
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This is the problem with women listening to female dating coaches because so often they assume men want the same things in women that women want in men. Confidence is, of course, critically important to women in their attraction to men, but it is low on the list of qualities men want in women. There are other qualities that are far more important to us.
In my honest opinion, I think confidence is a good attractive trait but the excess of it makes me feel uneasy. Too many confidence can bring arrogance or disrespect, it has to be balanced.
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I'm so glad you clarified that at the end because I was gonna say not Cockyness which a lot of females seem to confuse confidence and cockyness but yes confidence like knowing she pretty/cute knowing that she isn't putting her self down it is attractive now when they are all around saying that they are too pretty too be with someone that not confidence that's plain up rude and nasty but yes confidence in a women is attractive
Confidence can be attractive , but to a guy that doesn’t really matter like it matters to girls liking guys with confidence , Guys mainly prefer a girl that is beautiful and caring and sweet and loyal , she can be shy as well and we will still be attracted toward her
It really is. But not confidence in an arrogant way, but in a courageous one. Women tend to confuse confidence with snobbery and thinking they're beautiful. No. Confidence is having a courageous behavior and even character and applies to different things than just talking to the opposite sex.
confidence, yes, nut not arrogance. I would also say that while it's an attractive trait, it's not the most attractive (a friendly, caring personality is what I would put at the apex). Part of what makes a confidence attractive is the annoyance caused by inecurity and clinginess.
Eh.. I feel like confidence is an easy catch phrase to go to when you're trying to give advice but you don't really know what you're talking about. It's like the low-hanging fruit for lazy people. ("Just be more confident!")
I think that confidence is an attitude. A good attitude is great, but actions are a lot more important.
Men dont care about women being confident or not too much. Thats a woman issue that they want super confident guys which dont really exist. I got news for you. those really confident guys are either malignant narcissists or they fake it and project it to get you. Everybody has insecurities in their minds. Some hide it well.
Of course, men do.
Confidence usually comes with self-respect, and self-esteem and is typically found among women who are less likely to sleep around, have low standards, and generally be undesirable for long term. Never mind a partner who needs constant reassurance is a physical and emotional drain as even saying boo might have her in tears.
That's not true. A lot of really good women have low self-esteem. Because the skanks pick on them and bully them.
@Jamie05rhs Hardly
Hardly what?
I used too but it ended in disaster and disappointment the few times I tried. What I actually do now is ride a dildo while sucking my boyfriend off or using a vibrator or this machine I bought so it's like there's another guy there the difference is somebody won't be intimidated by the other guy's penis being bigger and be unable to perform or the guys cumming long b4 I do. Like I let 5 guys do me one night, they all came in about 2 minutes of penetrative sex like WTF.
This is a sad example of what some women think “confidence” is.
It's not nearly important to men as it is to women. I'd also disagree with that coach that it's the most attractive personality trait to a man. For that I'd say having a bright, cheerful, happy disposition is far more important. That bright, feminine energy is what attracts us like a magnet.
There is absolutely a difference between confidence and narcissism. If you show men you understand that difference, at least a few will feel more comfortable investing emotions and resources into a relationship with you.
Yes, there is nothing worse than a woman who needs constant reassurance that "nothing is wrong" or a woman who always asks, "are you mad at me?" when I have literally said or done nothing to make her think that. Insecure women are a huge turn off, as are submissive women.
Many women have a very misguided notion on exactly what “confidence” is? They think being loud mouthed, rude, overbearing or even being a bully is “confident”. Maybe it’s because many of them get turned on by men who act that way.
Yes (narcissism is different from it) and goes for both genders because a confident person means he/she is stable that is needed for relationship longevity. Though not all think that it's the one of most attractive trait.
REAL confidence... not 'posers'... although there IS SOME truth to the catchphrase to "Fake it til you make it!"
This is the problem with women listening to female dating coaches because so often they assume men want the same things in women that women want in men. Confidence is, of course, critically important to women in their attraction to men, but it is low on the list of qualities men want in women. There are other qualities that are far more important to us.
In my honest opinion, I think confidence is a good attractive trait but the excess of it makes me feel uneasy. Too many confidence can bring arrogance or disrespect, it has to be balanced.
Confidence not arrogance in anyone is always attractive! If you have confidence, nothing or no one can stop you!
I'm very confident myself and I prefer confident women, but that doesn't mean I can't help a shy woman become confident.
Quiet, ain't gonna take no bs, I know who I am, confidence. Absolutely! Loud in my face confidence, no.
Confidence is only valuable of it gives you the courage to behave in a correct and dignified way - by itself it means nothing.