Why am I so delusional?

[Xndidhr]

I really thought that so many coworkers liked me but im seeing that they all dont. So im wondering why im so delusional. My world was a lie so now im blue

[Anonymous]

What's really gonna cream your spinach is when you find out how little the rest of the world cares about you in general. But this is a good thing. Self realization is where you need to be. I've got good news though! You value is exactly the same as it was before. To God and the people that love you you're precious and irreplaceable.
The reality is most of the people of this world is too busy living their lives to worry about you. They don't dislike you. Actually they're not even thinking about you. And that's ok. Because now you're free to live your life without worrying about what people are thinking of you. Because now you know, they're not. 🙂

[Xndidhr]

Thanka man. Sadly nobody aside from my Father in Heaven loves and cares about me.

[Whatever2929292]

I don't think you are

delusional I think that most of us assume people like us but many don't. We want to think people like us the people that we like.

You can't force it and I am sure plenty of people out there like you and would like you just fine. Oh well you aren't at work to make friends do your job the best you can and get your work done. Nobody to really distract you

[Xndidhr]

Thank you. I really have to start having that mindset. I'm trying to get a new job now and once I do it will the the perfect time to restart and be professional and have that mindset.

[Whatever2929292]

You're welcome. Look you seem like a nice person. Thanks for the like and thanks for the follow

[Xndidhr]

i appreciate u. Few men on this site are nice like u.

[Whatever2929292]

Well thanks sorry I missed your reply I get so many notifications. Also thanks for MHA. I try and be nice unless someone is trolling. There are so many trolls and just arseholes on here

[Xndidhr]

Yes you seem frustrated based on another post i got from you lol

[Anonymous]

Let's talk. What is it firstly that you thought was the reason they liked you? Let me tell you something. Basically everyone in the workforce are fake as shit. Dont look for friends at your job

[Xndidhr]

Well firstly its that they would flirt so much, or give so much attention or compliments or stare at me.
And thank you so much. You know it took me forever to realize that. I'm only now starting the process of seeing that.

[Opinion Owner]

Dont be so hard on yourself either. It's okay to be down for a little bit but dont get stuck over it. You may very well be attractive but people could be jealous or salty they can't be with you. Just be cool... like dont chase. Say hi and be approachable but also dont let people play with your feelings.😉

[Xndidhr]

Thanks. its gonna be hard to learn to not let people play with my feelings.

[Xndidhr]

And after all the crap i been through at work with people playing with my feelings... It makes me feel like an inhuman object.

[Opinion Owner]

People are serious assholes. If you ever need to vent, cry, anything I'll be looking out for your posts to help out💜 but I can tell you have a good head on your shoulders and you're strong. So I know you will be okay

[Xndidhr]

Wow thank you xx i sure hope so. you're a kind soul.