3 years ago i dated this guy, I was the perfect girlfriend to him and then he f*** up the relationship by not taking it serious. Then i was just living my life & he would message me on Instagram here and there, id never reply. Then i posted myself on a date and He started going a little crazy with the dms just talking about how he needs to talk to me. He ended up telling me he loves me etc etc , And once he did that he ghosted? So i was like ok…. went back to my life. Then he came back talking about how he messed up. Anyways, now his actions seemed a bit better so he took me out a month ago, and again today. Today he kissed me and he grabbed my butt and he said “this ass used to be mine huh” and i know that was sexual but i feel like it meant a bit more. Im just asking you guys what that meant / if its relevant bc this guy does ghost me a lot and come back and show effort. I just dont get it.
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Ghosting would've ended ANYTHING and everything for me, and suggest that to everyone else. Shows a lot of disrespect, immaturity, and cowardness. I don't think there's anything "real" there for him. Might be an ego thing? You didn't put you life on hold for him, how dare you! LOL
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Men feel threatened when someone else gets their girl even if they don't want them. At best you're a backup plan or 'safe option'.
What did you do with the guy who you went on a date with? Dump him?
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"This ass used to be mine"? Not a good start of restarting a relationship...
If you do hookups you are not taking it seriously so why blame him? You are in on the game.
Meant a little more like what?
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