He said this during our hook up , what does it mean?

[Anonymous]

3 years ago i dated this guy, I was the perfect girlfriend to him and then he f*** up the relationship by not taking it serious. Then i was just living my life & he would message me on Instagram here and there, id never reply. Then i posted myself on a date and He started going a little crazy with the dms just talking about how he needs to talk to me. He ended up telling me he loves me etc etc , And once he did that he ghosted? So i was like ok…. went back to my life. Then he came back talking about how he messed up. Anyways, now his actions seemed a bit better so he took me out a month ago, and again today. Today he kissed me and he grabbed my butt and he said “this ass used to be mine huh” and i know that was sexual but i feel like it meant a bit more. Im just asking you guys what that meant / if its relevant bc this guy does ghost me a lot and come back and show effort. I just dont get it.

[Anonymous]

Ghosting would've ended ANYTHING and everything for me, and suggest that to everyone else. Shows a lot of disrespect, immaturity, and cowardness. I don't think there's anything "real" there for him. Might be an ego thing? You didn't put you life on hold for him, how dare you! LOL

[Opinion Owner]

"That ass used to be mine" is disrespectful and selfish also.

[Asker]

Haha right!! I called him out plenty and finally now there's some change but the fact that he said that i didn't know how to take it

[Ironmunkee]

Men feel threatened when someone else gets their girl even if they don't want them. At best you're a backup plan or 'safe option'.

What did you do with the guy who you went on a date with? Dump him?

[Asker]

Ohh that makes sense! And nothing he was not a good fit for me, just kept showing off and talking about how girls want him.

[ChrisMike1919]

"This ass used to be mine"? Not a good start of restarting a relationship...

[Asker]

Lmao right!😂😂😂

[Adam1978]

If you do hookups you are not taking it seriously so why blame him? You are in on the game.

[Asker]

I wasn't trying to hook up with him, he just kissed me and i like him so i allowed it

[spartan55]

Meant a little more like what?

[Asker]

Like I thought he was a bit hurt by the fact that we aren't together anymore. IDKK Haha

[spartan55]

Because he squeezed your butt and said "this ass used to be mine huh"
Yeah he seems REALLY upset about it...😂 😂