Why did he said that? Did he get a turned on from that hug?

[Anonymous]

I hugged him really tight and for a bit long because I was really vulnerable with him in that moment. After wards he told me that I have a legit great body. Why did he say that? Next when we met he said won't you give me a hug. I just gave him a side shoulder hug but he said you will regret it. Why did he said that?

[Man-O-Metal]

Get away from this guy. He’s fricking weird. I have to say, when a girl is vulnerable and hugs us guys, it is a complete turn on. Girls don’t realize it, but when they hug a guy in that mental state, they hug very passionately. Most guys take it the wrong way like he did. But he put a whole new twist on taking it bad. I’m sorry, but whenever a guy says a girl has a nice body after getting a hug from her when she’s just looking for emotional support, he’s trash. He’s trying to take advantage of your vulnerability and that is all kinds of wrong. Stay away from him.

[Asker]

Yeah, I also thought he was using me. It angers me, I am still hurt and in pain. It's like he was taking advantage of my feelings and he peacefully got away with it too after hurting me. I am just speechless. I didn't meet him after that but what he did and behaved like with me still hurts me.

[Man-O-Metal]

Sorry that you had to go through that. I’m glad you see the situation for what it really is. Please be careful and I hope you heal from this pain very soon 🙏🏻

[Asker]

I still feel hurt and I don't know how to get over it. He took advantage of my feelings.

[intertwinedramen]

This sound to me like a manipulative behavior, hugs are wholesome, the unlawful abuse of the vulnerable is disgraceful.
You own your personal space and you are free to what will be invited to so please cherish it and treat it with dignity, do not let harmful encounters stick around.
Honestly it's creepy and I would advice to avoid being in private setting with that guy until it calm down, he is quite creepy.

[Asker]

Yeah he is way too manupilative ig. I hate that just twist and turn his needs and impose it on others. It was really creepy. The thing was I left him in a haze after that his because he tried to kiss me and I didn't wanted that. He called me next day and asked what happened? Why did you leave like that after you hugged me so tightly.

[intertwinedramen]

Stay safe over there miss, you did well.
He is being irresponsible and taking it wrong, if it's a person you need to interact with set up clear and strict boundaries, best wishes.

[Asker]

Thank you so much. I don't meet him anymore he just makes me uncomfortable. I am really thankful for your advice.

[Loth2770]

Sounds like he did get turned by that hug. That by itself is no abnormal. However what he said afterwards is creepy and weird.

[Asker]

Yeah, it was that's why I gave him a side shoulder hug. It was like too much creepy.

[Wubs3000]

He's weird for that not the right place to say that stuff when someone is vulnerable. If he was turned on should have just kept it to himself lmao.

[Asker]

I know it made ma back away. I really didn't have pleasant feeling about what he did and I kinda became uncomfortable around him.

[Jamie05rhs]

He said, "you will regret it?". 🧐. That's a weird thing to say.

[Asker]

I know, I thought maybe he wants to get a hug because he kept on saying before that, will you hug me next time?

[Jamie05rhs]

He sounds like he has issues. I think maybe you shouldn't talk to him anymore.

[Asker]

I also think, yep

[KrakenAttackin]

The whole 'side hug" is a way to tell a guy to go fuck himself.

[Honesttguy]

Was he joking perhaps. Or was he mad about it

[Asker]

I don't know, it was really weird.

[boggboss]

Because he got turned on

[Asker]

Lol, I don't know but he liked hugging me. He said.

[boggboss]

No im telling u he did

[Asker]

Lol, maybe he did.

[spartan55]

You are friends with Merv the Perv.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

He might have been scared he gets a boner

[Asker]

Lol! Then he said that out of fear, like fr?

[Jamie05rhs]

@Fromdusktilldawn That doesn't make any sense.

[Wise4myage]

Maybe he sprung one?

[Asker]

I don't know maybe he was just too quiet suddenly.