Did he feel obligated to hug me?

[Anonymous]

I seen him at church a couple times and we were finally introduced. He hugged my mom first and when we were introduced he initiated the hug. It was a light hug with some space between our lower body.

I noticed before he left the room he took a glance back before leaving out.

[spartan55]

Great story.

[Asker]

Huh?

[Asker]

I’m sorry I don’t understand

[spartan55]

He was exchanging pleasantries. Don't short circuit yourself.

[Asker]

Right… but did he feel obligated to do so?

[spartan55]

Maybe, maybe not. Why does it matter?

[Asker]

I’m attracted to him but I want a guy to naturally want to hug me or talk to me. Maybe he's not attracted to me

[spartan55]

It's way too early to be thinking about that stuff.

[Asker]

It’s just the couple of times he’s seen me we never spoke and he never really looks at me.

[spartan55]

You are really 25?

[Asker]

Yeah why?

It’s okay to want a guy to see your worth in the beginning. I just feel like he’s not into me or my looks

[spartan55]

But you don't know that, like at all. You haven't even talked to him.

[Asker]

Why did you say great story?

[Asker]

Actions speak louder

The only he did was glance back before leaving out.

[Anonymous]

how old are you, he was just being friendly

[Asker]

Im 25.. but when he left out he did look back. Glance back