Why would a guy ask you what your plans are for the weekend?

[Anonymous]

[FilmGuy93]

Do you really need this explained? Because if you genuinely do, I'm happy to, but if you don't have Down Syndrome or Autism, I would feel like I'm insulting your intelligence

[Asker]

You know, I am actually considering getting tested for autism but you shouldn't insult people regardless. :)

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah, I always try to make sure that I'm not being harsh with people, especially people who genuinely need help. Someone who is on the spectrum might genuinely not pick up on the social cues of a guy asking about their plans for the weekend.

[Asker]

Yeah, I'm not joking. I'm considering getting tested for autism. Is this his way of asking me out or was he just trying to start a friendly conversation with me?

[FilmGuy93]

Okay, thank you for telling me that. The answer is "generally, yes." Obviously every social situation and social relationship is a little bit different, but people who are friends will generally ask each other about their weekend plans when they want to schedule something.
If a friend or romantic partner asks; they most likely want to do something with you.
If a coworker asks; they're probably just making conversation, unless they also ask you about doing something work related over the weekend.

[Asker]

Thank you so much for your advice and understanding! 😁

[FilmGuy93]

Of course! Happy to help

[Asker]

😁😁👍🏽👍🏽

[crossdressingrihno]

He wants to something with you over the weekend. Could be a date could be a party could be anything

[Asker]

Either way he wants it to be just the two of us, right?

[crossdressingrihno]

Maybe

[crossdressingrihno]

You can hope so

[Asker]

Hahaha yes! :D

[crossdressingrihno]

If you like him just ask him out

[crossdressingrihno]

A friend of mine tried to get the guy she liked to hug him but he didn't really notice because she didn't say anything and so she had to leave empty handed

[crossdressingrihno]

Before this incident they used to be good friends

[Asker]

Interesting!

[CallmeTheKnight]

If you have to ask, then he's better off not talking to you anymore.

You can't be this slow

[Asker]

You can't be this rude... :/

[Sparkie460]

He's just curious about what you're doing for the weekend.

[Asker]

That's all?

[Sparkie460]

If that's all he asked then yes. If he followed it with , do you want to go out, then he's interested in you

[Asker]

I told him that I did have plans though and I wasn't lying.

[Sparkie460]

If he likes you he'll ask again

[Asker]

Thanks for the tips! :)

[Sparkie460]

You're welcome. So what are you doing over the weekend?

[Asker]

Hahaha I am doing some special shopping for myself. :D

[Sparkie460]

Good for you 👍

[Asker]

Thanks! :D

[Sparkie460]

You're welcome

[In_Trance]

Because he wants to know what your plans are for the weekend

[Asker]

Thanks for stating the obvious haha.

[Anonymous]

because he wants to know what you're doing for the weekend duh

[Asker]

What for though lmao

[Opinion Owner]

because he wants to be part of your life

[Asker]

Romantically? Can’t it be friendly as well though?

[Opinion Owner]

what the hell is your deal?

[Asker]

I am just asking?

[Paul_in_Indy]

Because he has plans for you.

[Asker]

Hahaha very interesting.

[JakeS00]

Plan something with you.

[Asker]

Interesting :D

[peedy]

He wants to asked you out. Seeing if you're free

[Asker]

Oh god haha. I told him my plans and that I wasn't free.

[peedy]

Sounds like you dont like him

[Asker]

Not true. I did have plans.

[Luckycharms12]

Being nice or is interested in you

[Asker]

That's cool! Do guys usually ask these types of questions when interested, like is it common for them to ask specific questions like these?

[Luckycharms12]

Ya you ask see if girls free and ask her out

[Asker]

Oh, okay. I did tell him that I had plans and I wasn't lying.

[Nisabennn]

Maybe he likes you :)

[Asker]

You think so?

[Nisabennn]

Yeah. Someone who doesn't like doesn't care what you do on the weekend.

[Asker]

I mean, you're not wrong there haha. :D

[Nisabennn]

Lol i think you have feelings for him, am i wrong? 😄🤭

[Asker]

No, you're not haha. I sure do. I told him that I did have plans though and I wasn't lying.

[Nisabennn]

Heey how is it going with him after 11 days? 😄

[Asker]

Can I PM you about it? 😊

[lickysplit]

Maybe he wants to make plans if you have none

[Asker]

I did actually have plans.

[spartan55]

These questions...

[Asker]

No, really though?

[QuietRunner]

he wants sex with you

[Asker]

Really? Damn.

[richt325]

Probably wants to ask you out.

[Asker]

You think so? Are you certain?

[richt325]

I am. He probably wants to see if you are available before he asks you out.

[Asker]

I told him that I did have plans. I didn't make it up either.

[richt325]

Lol. He will probably try again next weekend and the following. But after that, he will probably stop asking.

[Asker]

Damn haha. I didn't lie though. I actually did have plans hahaha.

[RuthlessAggression]

Why do you think?

[Asker]

Couldn't tell if he was being friendly or not. :/

[RuthlessAggression]

Guess though, Why do YOU think. Trust your GUT, not ours

[Asker]

Is the guy even accurate? Lmao

[RuthlessAggression]

TRUST YOUR GUT