I don't know. Even if you were acting like a child, a man wouldn't be treated like one just for acting like it. He'd be treated like he's stupid or weak—at least from my experience—certainly not coddled. That would just encourage the behavior. So if they are treating you like a child, they probably *want* you to act like one. And that doesn't sound right.
Many grown women behave as children. I have to imagine that it’s much like being insane. Crazy people don’t know they’re crazy. Try recording yourselves for awhile. Then after a month or so review the recordings together. If you can’t agree after that, seek counseling. Someone you both agree on. Share the recordings and work it out from there. Otherwise end it. If you’re not certain the effort is valuable, best to just cut it off.
Those guys are full of SHIT! Pathetic incels and MGTOW creeps are always going on about this crap, but in any debate with any of them I'd make them all piss their pants and go crawling back to mummy.
But how can you be sure that it just doesn't apply to you specifically? What if you're just abnormally more mature than other women and all your friends have been gaslighting you into thinking they think the same way as you do?
If I say something a woman doesn’t like, because it feels bad or she simply doesn’t like it, she’ll either completely ignore it or come up with some way to rationalise why she’s right and it’s not true. Emotion comes first, and then they backwards rationalise.
There are also many men who are this way too.
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Because honestly a lot of women act this way. Not all but a lot. I’ve been around a lot of women, especially working in the medical field. Too many of them let their feelings do their thinking for them. No this has nothing to do w making me feel powerful. Trust me I’d gladly hand over the power if a lot of women didn’t crumble under pressure or break down and cry.
Your emotionally unstable like a child women make decisions that are based in feelings not logic or facts women need to lie to themselves because you can’t handle face truth men are forced to deal with reality and do something about it regardless of how we feel we don’t want to kill ourselves to protect and provide for our families but we know we need to
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Sadly for many women it is the truth. Ever notice when a man and woman argue women insist on getting things THEIR way, whether or not it is wrong? Ever notice how women play the victim if a man tells them something they do not want to hear? Ever hear women complain on the dumbest shit? This happens ALL the time.
@Snsl153 But apparantly some of y'all think that men are trash if they dont open doors. U can't be independant and strong and yet deny responsiblity when it comes down to it. ur either one or the other
A lot of men do this to women. Men are good at somethings that women aren't and women are better at things that men can't do. To belittle the other because they don't know something is wrong the best thing to do is work together and not judge or lose your temper
it's true... in a sense. but, it's because of the environment. you are raised and treated with kids gloves. combine that with this nonsense about them being more mature than boys when they're only more inquisitive... that sets them up for failure. it's why so many end up fucking their lives up and end up in abusive relationships.
Being emotional has nothing to do with immaturity. It's not emotional immaturity it's actually emotional maturity. Of course this doesn't apply to all girls because some can be plain immature.
They want to feel in charge, I have said in the past they they like cumming on our faces becuz they feel they have power but the one truly in control is us we have them at our mercy we allow them to belittle us like that to make them feel better. but we have to care about them to let them feel on top. does that make sense?
Because most guys are children themselves so they think if they treat women like children it'll help them accept them for what they are despite women not acting like children themselves
Because some guys are intellectual pygmies. They are children trapped in men's bodies. They are so insecure that their masculinity is threatened by smart, capable women.
Somebody with a real negative attitude like yourself would greatly benefit from some Paddling. WHY you get treated like child acting out all the time. Get to your corner, NOW…
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I don't know. Even if you were acting like a child, a man wouldn't be treated like one just for acting like it. He'd be treated like he's stupid or weak—at least from my experience—certainly not coddled. That would just encourage the behavior. So if they are treating you like a child, they probably *want* you to act like one. And that doesn't sound right.
Many grown women behave as children. I have to imagine that it’s much like being insane. Crazy people don’t know they’re crazy. Try recording yourselves for awhile. Then after a month or so review the recordings together. If you can’t agree after that, seek counseling. Someone you both agree on. Share the recordings and work it out from there. Otherwise end it. If you’re not certain the effort is valuable, best to just cut it off.
Those guys are full of SHIT! Pathetic incels and MGTOW creeps are always going on about this crap, but in any debate with any of them I'd make them all piss their pants and go crawling back to mummy.
But how can you be sure that it just doesn't apply to you specifically? What if you're just abnormally more mature than other women and all your friends have been gaslighting you into thinking they think the same way as you do?
@Telekinetic-Potato Seriously?
Yea, I've seen it happen before... It's weird.
I mean obviously the same kinda goes for guys but...
Let me put it this way, when I meet a girl who doesn't act like a child it's almost unsettling.
If I say something a woman doesn’t like, because it feels bad or she simply doesn’t like it, she’ll either completely ignore it or come up with some way to rationalise why she’s right and it’s not true. Emotion comes first, and then they backwards rationalise.
There are also many men who are this way too.
Because honestly a lot of women act this way. Not all but a lot. I’ve been around a lot of women, especially working in the medical field. Too many of them let their feelings do their thinking for them. No this has nothing to do w making me feel powerful. Trust me I’d gladly hand over the power if a lot of women didn’t crumble under pressure or break down and cry.
Your emotionally unstable like a child women make decisions that are based in feelings not logic or facts women need to lie to themselves because you can’t handle face truth men are forced to deal with reality and do something about it regardless of how we feel we don’t want to kill ourselves to protect and provide for our families but we know we need to
Sadly for many women it is the truth. Ever notice when a man and woman argue women insist on getting things THEIR way, whether or not it is wrong? Ever notice how women play the victim if a man tells them something they do not want to hear? Ever hear women complain on the dumbest shit? This happens ALL the time.
Guys are very protective and that's nice
Well, they shouldn't be. Many, if not most, of us don't need their "protection", and furthermore we don't want it.
@Snsl153 I wouldn’t say that. I personally love having a guy who will protect me and I him as well.
@Snsl153 But apparantly some of y'all think that men are trash if they dont open doors. U can't be independant and strong and yet deny responsiblity when it comes down to it. ur either one or the other
A lot of men do this to women. Men are good at somethings that women aren't and women are better at things that men can't do. To belittle the other because they don't know something is wrong the best thing to do is work together and not judge or lose your temper
it's true... in a sense. but, it's because of the environment. you are raised and treated with kids gloves. combine that with this nonsense about them being more mature than boys when they're only more inquisitive... that sets them up for failure. it's why so many end up fucking their lives up and end up in abusive relationships.
Being emotional has nothing to do with immaturity. It's not emotional immaturity it's actually emotional maturity. Of course this doesn't apply to all girls because some can be plain immature.
They want to feel in charge, I have said in the past they they like cumming on our faces becuz they feel they have power but the one truly in control is us we have them at our mercy we allow them to belittle us like that to make them feel better. but we have to care about them to let them feel on top. does that make sense?
It’s called projection. They feel inadequate and project their inadequacies onto you. This should be an instant deal-breaker. It’s abusive.
I don't know but I don't do that... I mean there are women who are like that but they aren't attractive to me and there are men like that too but.
Not all men act like that and I know you say some guys but then you pop off going on about it
Women often don't want to take responsibility for their own actions/decisions in life and that is childlike behavior.
I've always taken full responsibility for the outcome of my own decisions. You're full of crap.
Because most guys are children themselves so they think if they treat women like children it'll help them accept them for what they are despite women not acting like children themselves
Because some guys are intellectual pygmies. They are children trapped in men's bodies. They are so insecure that their masculinity is threatened by smart, capable women.
It's their only way of feeling powerful in a world where they're probably on the bottom of the hierarchy.
Somebody with a real negative attitude like yourself would greatly benefit from some Paddling. WHY you get treated like child acting out all the time. Get to your corner, NOW…
Because some women don't leave them when they do it an think it is acceptable so men as such keep breeding sons like that.. vicious cycle...
Things become extinct if left alone.