Why do guys treat girls as if we were so disposable?

[Anonymous]

It seems that every guy I have in my life (whether its friends, or date, or whatever) always treat me like I am so disposable. I am there for them, even when they feel really sad of anything, ill be the best damn friend they can have, but when it comes to it, after a couple of weeks or whatever, they let me down, they won't call for a couple of weeks, when at the beginning I was like the flavor of the week, they'd be all exited to see me every two days

! I know some will say maybe they had something for you, but no we were talking about other girls! So what do I do wrong? Am I being too nice and being used for the time they feel down or whatever?

[Snakeyes7]

Just for being kind to everyone, I don’t think you realize how rare you are in this world as I and all of my friends are struggling with this problem too and would kill for someone like you. Someone will come along and appreciate your kindness and who you are as a person. That person and only that person will be the only one who deserves you.

[AnonymousDude]

screw them and stay being nice

if you're nice and there for me, I'd do exactly the same, if someone doesn't do that they aren't that good of friend.

[TaraisHereKinda]

Life is a mirror and will reflect back to the thinker what he thinks into

it. ~ Ernest Holmes

because we let them!

[Intothevoid666]

Because u are only attracted to men who don’t really care for you and ignore all the guys who do. Women are the ones who really by and large treat men like they are disposable except only a very small select few men who they I guess feel the same way about.

[snackeyg]

Stop being there for them if they're not there for you. Those are bad friends/boy friends. Not all guys are like that btw. Sucks they make us look bad like that.

[Benson01]

You didn't do anything wrong nah keep being nice