Is it unattractive to throw yourself at someone?

[Anonymous]

If a girl completely throws herself at a guy, does that make her unattractive to him because there is no chase?

[Anonymous]

if you are aggresive with aguy and tell him you like him it is an extream turn on. I think the problem with thiosis that the only girls who go after guys are so confident that they do things like grab his ass (which isn't bad or stick there shoe up and down his backside. both these things happend to me. let me be honest I liked it. but the problem was I had no idea how to respond. aggresive girls don't turn off guys. infact it is a turn on. the only time being to aggressive back fires is when the guy doesn't know how to respond. I didn't know wear to take it next. so do all that stuff but also throw in some conversation so the guy can come back at you with something. girls who make there feelings known and tell a guy they like him beat out girls who hide there feelings all the time. give him a way to talk to you. all I could say to that girl was hi I remember when you squeezed my but. so remember being aggresive is not a turnoff. when it fails its because the guy doesn't know how to repond but is still turned on. and when you are not letting a guy know how you feel you will miss out because guys arnt good at subtle cues and letting him know you like him is a turn in. so in short turn him on by saying I like you, I would like to do something with you. rub his back write him a letter. all that is a major turn on. just don't grab his ass and say nothing or rub his thy and say nothing.

[everest74]

Yes and No. I have been in great relationship that started with sex right off the bat because we were caught up in the moment and we ended up sleeping together the same night just after meeting. I never thought anything negative or unattractive. It was Hot! On the flip side I have been made to wait and It drove me nuts but it was worth the wait. Its fun to chase and to build that sexual tension up over a few days or dates.

[Anonymous]

It's highly unattractive. The guy will probably be flattered and like it for the moment, but those are the girls who get clowned and not taken seriously. I'm not saying completely play hard to get but have respect for yourself and have a little mystery. If you throw yourself at a guy you'll look desperate. A high quality girl doesn't have to do that because men are trying to get to know her, ya dig?

[NirvanaCobain]

well I think that you can't be way to easy or too "hard to get" just be regular like smile, flirt, hug and all that good stuff but don't make yourself "too easy" to get at guys love the chase

[blue-kev]

You like twilight and Nirvana. I think we are sole mates. lol

[NirvanaCobain]

:] nice.

[beach_chick]

I have done this, and I feel like I've completely turned him off. even when he admitted that he was attracted to me.

[Hollister78]

i personally think its hot whena girl asks me out. just an heir of confidence around her when she does. the again when he completely throws herself at your that's hat too I wouldn't turn her down unless she's like ugly

[Sheryl]

nah, if he finds it unattractive but willing to f*** her, well he's a douche

[Jeff-in-Louisiana]

No, I have no problem with it.

[That-Guy]

Best answer, no contest.