How do most guys typically react when they’re rejected?

[inquirerlady]

No lies
No sugarcoating
Just facts

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Very normal.

Most guys I've rejected have been mostly respectful.

The worst I've had so far was a guy on GaG who probably couldn't read. He was the most annoying, but he still left me alone after a while - I just had to get a little brisk and snippy.

Never had a bad reaction in person. Dude looked bummed, but wasn't rude or mean.

[NotTacocaT6969]

They all react differently.


Some just look down at the ground at walk away sad.


Some become angry and yell insults.


Some become violent.


And every single other possible reaction you can imagine because humans are unpredictable.

[inquirerlady]

so true bestie

[Blackcosmo]

You couldn't have said it better.

[MikeInHawaii]

Rejection never bothered me. Some wonderful people don’t belong together. Seeing the drugged out, brain dead losers and abusive, chest thumping, strutting ass holes women go out with after rejecting me was always the tough part. I also get annoyed when women who’ve turned me down see me flirting with another woman and get jealous.

[SiberFox]

Depends entirely on the level of attraction and amount of time knowing her before asking her out.

[ArtemisSilver]

Mild disappointment to slight annoyance depending on the circumstances.

Honestly I'm not so hard up that I'm really troubled by a rejection. It's a bit disappointing when I think we have a lot in common or hit it off on my side but whatever, I've got options.

[MTC29]

Shrug and then move on. It is not as though there is a shortage of women... they are plentiful.

[jennifer_bloom]

My experience is they either refuse to accept your not interested or they treat you like an illness they are trying to heal from.

[DryGermanGuy]

😬😬😬

[Curmudgeon]

Well, it certainly does not feel good, and for younger men it is probably devastating. But the older one gets, the less one cares.

[inquirerlady]

Yeah, but what do you DO?

[Curmudgeon]

At this stage in life, I yawn. What else is new? Now if she is nasty about it, well then she deserves to be beaten and worse, but otherwise, meh.

[Bmories99]

I spiral into a minidepression which hurts my self esteem and takes some time to heal.

[FilmGuy93]

Most guys are disappointed but then they move on and go about their day.

[Anonymous]

"Ok". Lol there's lot of women. Why would I want to be with one that isn't feeling me?

But also if she led me on the payback will be in order.

[Wise4myage]

It stings a bit, but we get over it and move on. What else can a guy do?

[RobEurope]

Feeling sad, disappointed. "It happened again" like failed job interview.

[dudeinohio]

I'm a little upset, but I get over it quickly.

[Anonymous]

dumb bitch! her loss!

[jahaims]

Depends on context

[In_Trance]

you can't generalize