My old friends with benefits from another country keeps harassing me what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I used to have a friends with benefits when I lived out in Canada. I blocked him on my Facebook and Instagram but he keeps finding ways to contact me like me email or making new accounts what should I do? He's passing me off I don't want to talk to him anymore

[Anonymous]

"... in the past is keep going back to him" and "surely he got the hint"... this is why he still tries. You need to directly tell him that it's over 100% now, and please don't contact me anymore. "Hints" of any kind leave room for doubts, because like if they are done to you, they aren't direct or give you any kind of "for sure" closure. Telling him DIRECTLY how you feel and what you think, gives that closure. Now if he continues after that, then either just ignore/block (and it'll eventually stop), or threaten to call the police (letting him know you're serious and mean business). Sometimes just the treat will "hit home". I don't know what you have or haven't said to him, but it sounds like there was never any closure, not directly, so I think that's all you have to do. Be direct.

[calmcake]

kinda going through the same thing except the guy's in the city im at. just keep blocking him each time. i assume you already said to him clearly that you dont wanna talk to him anymore, so dont say anything at all. just block. i know its annoying (as hell), but eventually he'll stop.

[Asker]

One thing i did in the past was kwwp going back to him. But surely he has taken the hint I haven't spoke to him since April now

[laurieluvsit]

Get a new email account and make sure to tell all your friends who know him not to give it to him.

And Ghost him completely...

LAURIE'S Exhaustive Guide to Ghosting

[spartan55]

So... dont talk to him then.