How to adulate a guy?

[Metelda]

so I met a guy online and we r frnds. he is super sweet and warm. I like him and want to date him. but I guess he already gets lots of attention from other woman since he is a friendly guy and handsome of course. All of them are friend zoned. But I want to be someone different so I kind of ignored him and he noticed it and was like how much do you ignore me. You keep me on seen then I said I just forgot to reply. So hr said so you didn't remember me after that to which i said its not like that it's just that i have been busy lately and also thought not to bother u. Then he said he was waiting for my texts and that i should have texted. I don't know if he is honestly saying or just flirting. What do u guys think of him? Am I getting attention?

[123TacocaT321]

Too many games going on and weird insecurities already. I would not peruse a relationship if I was the guy or the girl lol.

Sounds like both people have attention and control issues?

[Metelda]

i dont know.. i just want his attention

[123TacocaT321]

There's other ways to get attention. Also the guy might not even want to be in a relationship if he friendzones so many chicks.

As the other guy said respect should be number 1. Try going to do something you both have in common and try to find out more about him there. If you have nothing in common try something new together or something he likes. Overcoming new obstacles as a couple if you're together or not will build a relationship regardless.

[Metelda]

sure thnk u😊

[BarryLiverstone]

You are playing games by ignoring him and he’s telling you to cut it out. When girls fail to reply and give effort at communicating I usually forget about them. Do you want him to forget about you?

[Metelda]

i m not playing games its just tht i want to get his attention

[BarryLiverstone]

Get his attention by respecting him, replying to his messages, and being who you are. What you are doing is disrespectful

[Metelda]

oh shit i was wrong🥲 thanks for ur advice😊

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome