Why do I always lose to girls with bigger boobs?

[Anonymous]

I have A cup boobs but my nipples are very proportionate to my boob size and my boobs are pirky. I have a fantastic ass that gets many compliments since I workout. I have a pretty good looking face too. Even with all that I still lose to girls with bigger boobs even if they don’t even look good or the girl is ugly. Usually when it comes to a guy , a guy will always choose me in the end because of my personality but what about the beginning. Why do guys BOTHER even talking to me if my boobs aren’t even attractive and they would enjoy bigger ones more 😞 At this point I’m just getting a boob job because guys never prefer my boobs over other girls.. It’s very soul crushing when the guy you like ( and are talking to) tells you he sometimes gets “cravings” for big boobs. He says he still prefers small boobs but I know he’s lying to make me feel better man 😞 I just want to be loved for all of me but why do men not prefer small boobs? I just don’t understand why a guy would even waste his breathe talking to me if at any moment a big boob girl walks by and he’ll be looking her down like a hungry dog…. They’ll just look at my boobs won’t be fully satisfied 😞 I just feel disgusting now lol FML

[Stevepro68]

Wrong guys. Boobs are to men what a Lamborghini is to young women. It always gets you in the door. Doesn't mean it always trumps everything else.

My girlfriend is amazingly beautiful but she is self conscious about her boob size. It is an expression of the female need to self criticize. Guarantee when you are over 35 and the giant racks head south you will be happy with your equipment and they won't.

If I walk away at a bar to go to the bathroom I have to beat the young guys off of her when I get back. She lights up a room stunning beautiful perfect body and a butt frankly I thank the creator for. All she can do is look down at her chest and wish for bigger. 🤦

[Pegases]

Lol the way to compete with girls with bigger boobs is to work on your personality even more. With an already great personality, you'll blow those women out the water. I say this because I've been with beautiful girls that were boring, and then average looking girls with amazing personalities, and it was always the girls with the amazing personalities that I liked the most. Also, compliment the guy. Men rarely get compliments, so you'd be surprised at far a compliment will get you. Best of luck.

[kylee2437]

Sounds like the kind of men you are going for. You can’t get mad when you are settling for men that only care about boob size. No decent guy is going to say “your personality is great, but your A cups , uh not cutting it for a relationship” , only men that care about sex only would say something like that

[RetroReviews]

To be fair and blunt at the same time if men are attracted to busty women and that's what gets the juices flowing, and a smaller chested woman just doesn't do that for us is that wrong? A person can have a great personality and that could be a good friend but if you're not physically sexually attracted to them you can't force it. The spark is either there or it's not

[kylee2437]

@RetroReviews I mean sure I guess, but if boobs are your reason of not dating someone, that says a lot more about what kind of guy someone is. I would never force a guy to love me if my boobs were the common denominator

[RetroReviews]

Speaking for myself it is a requirement to be sexual smaller flat chest does just does not turn me on. I can like you as a person and your personality but if we want to have a sexual relationship then it's not going to work. So then that's going to be a hang up for both people the woman would be disappointed cuz she can't get the guy turned on to make love to her. It goes the other way too say a woman is very athletic and an overweight guy is attracted to her and wants to date her the woman says no because she does not dig his flabby body

[kylee2437]

@RetroReviews that’s your preference, but I’d never take a guy serious if this was an expectation of his, and my chest size isn’t small but if I found out a guy was this shallow, it would cue me to other questions

[RetroReviews]

We all have our preferences and likes and dislikes I'm not a total jerk about it and would never come out and say hey your tits are too small I won't date you. I'm a great guy with a heart of gold that just happens to be attracted two women that are thick and curvy

[kylee2437]

@RetroReviews that’s awesome, I still think it’s rude if a guy decides to go for opposite he’s attracted to just to throw that in her face in the end.

[RetroReviews]

It would be rude to throw in someone's face. There's a right way and a wrong way to go about things. He could just simply say I don't feel a physical attraction to you if you don't have to go into details

[RetroReviews]

If a guy would be that rude to throw it and woman's face even though I'm a guy I would say he deserves a good hard kick to the balls for that

[Midgetmcwidget]

Doubt it I have 32dd and I never have a guy show interest, especially guys that i like

[RetroReviews]

Never? That's a shame sounds like you're a beautiful woman

[BarryLiverstone]

Do you feel like having smaller boobs limits you in what you wear? Or are you seeing guys talk to you and get distracted by girls with bigger boobs?


Ngl playing poker this weekend a few girls caught my eye. One had a low cut top with big boobs almost falling out. Another I could only see her face but I kept looking back. Saying this as it wasn’t the boobs that caused me to see her.

[Asker]

Well honestly I actually love my small boobs and think they look perfect. I just feel insecure as hell because I want a guy to WANT my small boobs, not just settle for them

[BarryLiverstone]

The fact that you like them is huge. Seems like more guys like smaller boobs than big ones anyway. You are an A cup, that’s not flat at all yk

[BarryLiverstone]

What would help you feel better tho?

[kinggeorge007]

It's the same way as girls choose men over the height or the penis size. It really is. *I don't know you*, but if you are comfortable about filtering guys based on the height and the penis size, this is the other side of the coin.

Apart from that, I know a plenty of guys who thrive and crazy in love with the women they chose, despite them having small boobs.

Maybe your personality isn't that cool as you think it is to overshadow the boob size. Improve your personality and be genuinely close with the guys you talk to, they will fall for you instantly.

Or change the type of guys you talk to. That matters too. May be you are talking to guys who have a plenty of options to choose from. Find that unique guy who likes you for being you. I assure you, guys are very simple creatures. They don't think I'm many ways when it comes to girls. If you start to care about them genuinely, they fall really quickly.

[RetroReviews]

Because a lot of guys simply are more attracted to women with big boobs. It's nothing personal against you it's just what they're physically attracted to. That would be like if a woman is in great shape but a guy that's really overweight wants to date her but she is not attracted to his flabbiness. And he replies but I have a great personality though and would treat you good. So it goes both ways

[DavidRaul]

You shouldn't feel insecure. I would prefer small boobs over big boobs any day. And you shouldn't get a plastic surgery. A true man would see your overall personality and qualities in you. They wouldn't care what size your boobs are

[JustinTheGreat]

If you have a nice ass and pretty face then I promise most men aren’t gonna care about you having small boobs. If it was that much of a deal breaker then they wouldn’t talk to you at all.

[Robert159]

Honestly small boobs are extremely sexy believe it or not some guys like myself are attracted specifically to small boobs my personal preference is nothing over a medium b cup but that's me I can't speak for others

[Anonymous]

Awww. I’m very attracted to busty women but I’ve also been pretty crazy about women who weren’t busty. They just happened to have nice figures with incredible booties and absolutely gorgeous faces, who also happened to be very intelligent. Sadly she was also a flake and was never serious about going out with me, she just enjoyed the external validation from me. But my point is that even though this girl was small (maybe an A cup, B at the most) I was really taken with her.

[Anonymous]

Plastic surgery needed. No-boob girls are never considered good by guys. In alternative, tongue piercing, hot shorts and skirts, tatoos, and, in intimacy, many and many blowjobs (they dont need boobs). You'll see that guys will forgive your lack of boobs

[NathanDavis]

might not be the boobs but all this insecurity and obsession with boobs...

[Asker]

It’s definitely the boobs , I don’t tell these guys that I’m insecure or show them I am

[NathanDavis]

you clearly are... so they can tell, eventually

[Asker]

No they cannot tell , they never do until I tell them

[NathanDavis]

they know... they just won't tell you because it would be quite rude to do so, lol

[Asker]

Nope many guys are clueless about it lol

[NathanDavis]

well... sooner rather than later, you'll find men

a man that doesn't care much about boob size rather cares about more about you and who you really are

[BADGER44]

just how it is. women do same to us for not being tall.. sure they talk to you cause they like you and your cool... they may get bigger especually when you get married and pregnant. then. theyll wish they got to know you... laugh will be on them...

[CrimsonAngel09]

Scheiße, I'd sell my soul to Satan to get smaller boobs. Bigger ones aren't great.

[RetroReviews]

Please don't say that you're beautiful the Way You Are busty is hot

[FunkyMonkee]

I guess they just don't know that there's ways to make those puppies grow so, they're cutting off their nose to spite their face!

[FilmGuy93]

I've been told that ladies with bigger breasts are more confident. I don't know how true that is, but maybe confidence plays a role here.

[GlamorousTurkey]

You just need to accept who you are, since people will never get over some things. Just understand that you are in that situation, and that it's fine, and that their opinion has no actual influence on you (or at least, it doesn't need to)

[WonderingManII]

Sounds like you are living around a lot of big boob loving men.

[John_Doesnt]

I don't know what I like so much about those big bouncing fun bags.

[RandomGuy1030]

Shouldve posted a pic. Too small is bad. Small is ok. Normal is good. Big is ok. Huge is bad.

[Smallboobsgotohell]

It is okay to have small boobs

[MCheetah]

It's not the boobs. It's the penis.

[RuthlessAggression]

meeting the wrong men?