Can men really be friends with good looking women, I doubt it, but would like to hear your thoughts and experiences?

[cdimples99]

[HighValue]

Most can't handle it.

I can if there is something that makes her incompatible with me for a LTR such as she has kids from someone else already, she has an unacceptable past, she doesn't want kids in the future, or something like that.

Also if I was in a relationship I wouldn't be tempted by another person so it would be easy for me then too.

If I was attracted to her, we were compatible, and we were both single it would likely be too difficult to be friends so I would just not hang out with her under those circumstances.

[Anonymous]

No. Well yes we can be friends I’d that’s all she wants. But the minute she says “fuck me” almost every man would bend her over in a heartbeat. We men tend to make friends w cute girls just in case there’s a chance. Most of them don’t listen to girl’s problems because they’re really concerned about her. They want her to maybe let him fuck her one day. There may be some exceptions. Most men won’t tell you that though cause women would cancel men all together I’d they really knew what men thought.

[fonduegirl]

Of course. It's demeaning to think the male gender consists of horny dogs.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I would have said no earlier, like 3 months ago. But now with experience, I can say that yes, guys can really be friends with good looking women.

It is really simple and really helpful actually. They have resources and material what others do not.

[NathanDavis]

yes, done that for 20 years...

another one for 16 years..

couple more for 12 years...

and others as well

worth to note that, while I was friends with all these attractive women, I was in my own relationship with my attractive girlfriends, and in love with them, so... that

[Wubs3000]

Yes they can be but I will say, if a guy is single and looking for a partner but isn't crushing super hard on one person, they will most likely see that person as a potential partner. It doesn't mean they aren't friends though and he isn't happy being friends. Ofc there are exceptions you can be single, looking, and still friends with an attractive women who you could never see yourself with.

[FilmGuy93]

In theory they can be, but I wouldn't count on it from a practical standpoint.

[Karate_Guy]

Yes, I have several female friends who are drop dead gorgeous, and we are just friends.

[Anonymous]

Of course. But being attractive doesn't give her a free pass. She still has to act like a decent human being. Most attractive women don't get that.

[Twalli]

It's possible. I'm friends with several attractive looking women.

[cdimples99]

But is it because you are hoping to be in relationships with them later? I feel uncomfortable being a friend to a guy with this possibility in mind - also, I wouldn't trust a man I am in a relationship with if he has pretty girl friends - what are your thoughts?

[Twalli]

Not really. I mean I did ask a friend out and she did accept. Really I don't care how a pe looks if we're going to be friends. If we have shared interests then we're friends

[BarryLiverstone]

Two of my friends are very good looking so it can happen

[Mgtow1990]

No absolutely not I as a man could not be just friends no way

[Anonymous]

Some can, but most can't. Yes, it is sad.

[Zolly99999]

Sure absolutely. I am.

[Anonymous]

Sure but then I'm asexual anyway

[Chazmatazz269]

Of course.

[baserunner611]

Yes, be a friend