I got upset at my boyfriend because while we were hanging out at my house he told me that he missed when he had the house to himself was I illogical?

[Anonymous]

He was referring that he missed taking care of my house and the dog and having my whole house to himself I got upset and mimicked him. We only hang out twice a week but this week it was 3 and while I was playing video games he said this I got upset and mimicked what he said but now that I’m thinking about it that was pretty hurtful. I took it as in he wished that I wasn’t there.

[Plinko]

So, I think you're right to be upset about it. I take away the same thing you did.

That said, being upset at him will definitely reinforce that feeling in him.

Double edged sword of a situation. I guess ask what he meant when he said it. Explain that it made you feel unwanted and find out.

Sorry that happened, sounds rough.

[Asker]

He got pretty sad. After he said that I said “I knew that you didn’t love me that much” and he said “we’re not going to love each other the same way” and then I imitated him. After that we were both silent for a while until i brought it up.

[Plinko]

Nah, I don't see that relationship heading in positive directions.

Real sorry.

[Asker]

Why? After that I thought I saw him crying so I broke the silence and gave him lots of kisses then we started being cuddly again and when he left he said that he was sorry and thanked me for loving me the way that I did. I just can’t tell if I feel like he doesn’t actually love me because of my low self esteem or if that’s just the way it is

[Jamie05rhs]

All men enjoy having the house to themselves once in a while.
So do women.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO!

[RuthlessAggression]

To be fair, i like doing that too... only, im single

[Anonymous]

You had every right to be pissed off.

[Asker]

What is your interpretation by what he said? Is he falling out of love with me? I was just playing video games.

[Asker]

And then he was acting very cold and wasn’t even touching me anymore after I mimicked him

[Opinion Owner]

Well, he should have thought before he spoke. Did you ask him to clarify?

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like you got even, lol.

[Asker]

He apologized after hours but the weird thing is that he was tearing up a few hours later like he was crying and then i got all soft and gave him kisses to cheer him up and now he won’t even tell me why he was so sad and denied that he was crying

[Opinion Owner]

Hen was sad because he realized the impact of his words.

Now go have some makeup sex, hehe.

[Asker]

He told me that that’s not what he meant that he just missed having the house to himself and taking care of things

[Asker]

Im on period i can't get sex

[Opinion Owner]

Damn! What about BJ?

[Asker]

I keep on feeling like he doesn’t love me maybe it’s my low self esteem. Later he told me “thank you for loving me the way that you do” he said that while he was leaving

[Opinion Owner]

Don't overthink this.