My boyfriend hasn't come home for 2 days do I have right to be annoyed?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend live together. I’m 37w pregnant I’m not due for another 3 weeks but yeah. He hasn’t come home for 2 days, I know he’s not with a woman because he’s FaceTimed me and he’s at his brothers house as they’ve recently started doing this job together then he smokes so much weed and falls asleep at his brothers house, do I have the right to be annoyed about this or am I being dramatic? I’m really annoyed I haven’t seen him in 2 days. I’ve been busy myself last night as it was my friends engagement but if I wasn’t busy he still would have stayed at his brothers anyways? When I have a go at him for it he just DOSENT UNDERSTAND!! He just says he’s an adult and he’s with his brother and that we will spend time together the next day. I’m starting to actually dislike him for it? He won’t even let me know either that he’s sleeping there, I’ll just call him when I wake up at 4am in the middle of the night and he says he’s at his brothers.

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And no I know it’s not a woman because they post Snapchat’s every second of them smoking and it just annoys me he’d rather sit and smoke with his brother than see me

[verybusyguy]

You are his responsibility
Even if you are not married
As a man it's his job to do is husband duty if he has knocked you up

It's his child as well
He must protect and provide

[jojoiwiwbwjo]

Relationships did not come with a signed agreement. last time I checked cultural diversity was still a thing and projecting onto other what you grew up to believe is good is stupid. The world is your responsability, even if you don't have friends. As a human being you have the job to learn and further manking since your taking resources from the rest of us. Yet I don't see you doing that. Judge yourself before you judge others and be the change you wish to see in the world but remeber you're 0 to say what anyone else must do, and you realized that by now since you probably didn't like me telling you what you should do either. Delete account and grow up.

[jojoiwiwbwjo]

Maybe he is trying to enjoy his last days without the responsabikity parenting brings.

[Akam93]

Yes especially being pregnant. You could go into labor whenever.

[jimmy2]

I guess so he needs to man up and be with you