Pulling all the way?

[Anonymous]

Why do men pull away so abruptly! I have been talking to this man for awhile now. We are trying to meet despite the long distance. All of a sudden he is planing a trip. Now crickets! Like wtf? I will admit I am super busy 24/7. He does most of the reaching out because if I contact him it’s always a no answer or a text “I’ll get back to you”. I am confused

[Guy13]

Public place if you meet him. I would not meet him at all... Your call as you are an adult !!

[Asker]

I mean we have FaceTimed etc a lot of stuff! There is not a big dating pool where I live. So I figured why not

[Guy13]

Well, alright then !!! Maybe he's the one !!

[Asker]

Well now he isn’t really talking to me lol so I don't know 🤷🏻‍♀️ trying to figure out why men do this

[Guy13]

You are obviously a hand full...

[Asker]

Lol 😂 how I literally have so much going around me I can barley talk. We use to chat on the phone everyday. Mostly he called me. Like all the time and no nothing

[Guy13]

YOu are simply not a relationship girl... airplane ride for friends with benefits sounds like reality tv...

[Asker]

You might not be wrong actually

[Bang5luts]

It's because he probably doesn't feel like you are serious. He reaches out, you're busy so he makes other plans to see how you'll react or because your busy

[Asker]

Fuuuuck! Well I’ve been trying but nothing so I stopped

[Bang5luts]

Please understand I don't know all aspects I'm not a psychic or clairvoyant. I hope it works out

[maximumpower]

You've never met in person?
Don't try to make this something that it isn't.

[Asker]

No we have not but we have been planning this for a minute. Then all of a sudden nothing.
Trust me I am not just wondering what goes through a man’s mind is all