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Okay so me (19) and my boyfriend (22) been dating for almost two years and we have our first baby on the way and lastnight I decided I wanted to pull a prank on him by sending him a picture of me cuddling up with another guy (although it wasn't me I made my Bestfriend send a picture of her and her brother legs which made it seem like I was really cheating on him because they were in a cuddling position... I know it's kinda weird lol) but I sent the picture to him and he immediately showed up to my house and he was very emotional and upset about it he really thought I cheated on him and I kept acting nonchalant because it wasn't even true and he thought I just didn't care about him or the relationship anymore because he thinks I found someone better but after he left I sent him screenshots to show him that the female in the pic wasn't me and I never cheated on him and I told him it was a joke but now he's completely ignoring me with no explanation he won't answer my calls or texts at all am I wrong for pulling this prank or is he just overreacting? And what should I do to get him to talk to me if I am wrong?
Girl, this was definitely not a prank 😅. You've actually simulated to him that you are very capable of cheating and not caring at all about him. (Facepalm)
I read in the comments you wanted to learn if he was cheating or not by watching his reaction, but in reality you gave him the emotional strain and equal amount of distrust that comes with real cheating. In his mind, you just showed how little you care for him. The father of your child. You sent him a picture too as if to rub it in. He is definitely thinking you don't care at all about him and would cheat when you got the chance.
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congratulations, you just permanently damaged your relationship. Even if you salvage it, there is no way to turn it back to normal.
So what can you do? As much as you are remorseful, the ball is on his side of the court. Wait on his response or lack thereof and eespond accordingly
Anonymous(25-29)Like I have said, many times now on GAG, if you play games, there is always a loser.
This ain't gonna be easy to recover from. I cannot advise you where to start. I guess just give him time. It might take a long time.
You have sowed the seeds of doubt in his mind. It is up to him if he can weed out those doubts.
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That's a really fucking shitty thing to do. You pulled a stunt like that to deliberately elicit a reaction, of course it's going to cause emotional turmoil, and of course it was going to hurt him. And now you're refusing to take responsibility and entertaining the thought that he just overreacted to it? Ugh.
774 opinions shared on Relationships topic. You're about to have a child and you think this is appropriate behaviour? Really? You don't deserve what you have if you think it's ok to toy with someone like that. Smh.
This was a HUGE violation of trust. You screwed up BAD and saying "lol just a prank" does not make it better.
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When you saw him upset, you obviously didn't care about him or the baby... Right then people that care stop the prank and prove it's just a prank. Now you lost your man and that baby probably will grow up without a constant support from their father... Great job👍
I think your boyfriend is contemplating what he got himself into and the dumbass decisions he made to end up with a person like you. No wonder he won't text you. You bet your bottom dollar he regrets having a kid with such a dumb person like yourself. And I don't blame him. Dafuq is wrong with you
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No explanation? This was a pretty immature thing to do. Not only are you two in a serious relationship, but you have a child on the way? Can you imagine the heartbreak of seeing the man you love cuddling another woman in a picture with no explanation and when questioning him about it he ignores the problem? That was kind of cruel. I think all breakup/cheating/relationship pranks are wrong because they are made to mess with someones feelings.
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I say within due time he will come to his senses
i think it was wrong to pull the prank but than again
what guy would fall for a prank from his girlfriend that
she was having a affair with another guy and i think we
all do things without thinking but seriously he needs to
come to his senses. Pranks are all fun n games until you start leveraging peoples trust in you for the prank. Basically you held your relationship hostage for the benefit of a good laugh, or worse you knew exactly how much this would get to him and thought it might be good for a kick anyway.
Not much you can do except apologize and work to rebuild trust again.392 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Sounds like you let the joke go on for too long. After a while its less of a joke and more of just plain mean.
I won't say if you're a runner right you know him better than we all do but you just have to put yourself in his shoes if it was turned around vice versa would you fly off the handle the moment you seen the picture that's the way I look at it damn you probably pretty hurt as he was so maybe you ought to get in bed with him have a camera setup to take some pictures of yours and his legs and tell him these are the only legs you are next to yours
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I’ve seen pranks like this on YouTube before several times. Things could’ve been bad, meaning he could’ve reacted in a very bad way. Plus, you guys have a baby on the way, so I think that amplifies the immature and uncalled properties of the prank even more. Try with pranks that are harmless and you’re sure that the reaction will be harmless.
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He will get over this in time. Don't push him right now or he'll get madder at you!
Not going to winbany probably any prizes for best prank of the year. -
thats messed up. why would you even do that? were you even thinking about what it might do? thats probably the stupidest thing you could've done
"ignoring me with no explanation" yea there kind of is one. you were cruel with his emotions and heart. he probably will never trust you 100% now. maybe 99.5% but not 100% so nice job. hope you enjoyed your prank. people are clueless.
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Yeah, you were wrong. I think you need to apologise properly, admit it was wrong of you to mess with his feelings like that, and then leave him to decide what he wants to do.
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That's wrong and you're pregnant way to be a single mother. Grow up
Jokes are fun, but that prank wasn't. This isn't YouTube
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That's messed up. You are definitely wrong. Jokes are funny and your was just cruel. Maybe you don't deserve this guy
LOL, you fucked up big time!
I don't envy the position you are in.- Anonymous(36-45)
You are way too childish to be having a child. how would you feel if he did that? You need to think before you do things
you're an idiot immature kid who will have kid. i feel sorry for the baby 👼
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Of course it was wrong. Why would you want to hurt someone who cares about you? What is funny about that?
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What kind of emotionally stunted idiot does something like that instead of just -- I don't know, communicating? If he's smart he'll wise up and be with someone actually deserving of his love, but I seriously fear for your future child. One can only hope she doesn't end up like your dumbass.
Smh.
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