Why my male friend trying to get sexual towards me?

[Anonymous]

we are friends, deep down in my heart, I like him, he became sweet over time, but lately he started to touching me inappropriately.. I didn't mad at him because I like him. but I kept trying to set the boundaries.

is that means he tried to make us as a friend with benefits?

[WindAtMyBack]

He's a guy and he is sexually attracted to you. Why? Because he is a guy and you are a girl.

It's possible for guys to be "just friends" with women, but normally there will be sexual attraction. A million years of evolution made it that way. It's simply part of nature.

He might want friends with benefits. I think it's more likely that he wants a real relationship.

[Nathan25]

If you truly like him then you better muster up the courage to set some fucking boundaries. There is no way the friendship continues if you let him touch you in a way that makes you uncomfortable. And if it does continue, it will only become more toxic. You are a young woman who deserves some respect and space. Don't treat him like he is an asshole but be assertive.

[bubblegunnn]

I could say prolly friends w benefit. Why.. because see his first step is sexually.. not love

[Asker]

why so difficult to get a good guy. ?

[GeneralContractor]

A lot of the time, a male "friend," if you are female, is after you. The only exception is if he has made it clear he isn't interested early on, either directly, or casually. Some men are too coward to tell a girl they like them up front and hover around like a bee trying for some honey. It is also possible you like him to at some level, but can't admit it, and have been sending him signals unknowingly. Now that his awkward and possibly criminally made intentions are known, you have to make some decisions.

[Guy13]

Because that is what we do. We can not help it as woman is pretty. That does not mean that you allow him to proceed. Tell him to back off if you think it necessary !!!

[Asker]

he keep doing it then apologies. what's his ulterior motives? I know that he has no intention to date me.

[Guy13]

Well, I suppose he wants to be intimate without full time dating? What do you think?

[Asker]

I don't like the idea

[Guy13]

Then don't do it... decision made and problem solved !!

[Asker]

can I ask one more question?

[Anonymous]

You clearly did something to tip him off that you were interested in elevating the friendship. The only question is did you do it by accident. Or did you do it intentionally and now you're playing all innocent. I'll never understand why your gender gets such a high of teasing guys like that.

[Sandeeppingping]

He's probably trying to get sexual because he doesn't want to be in the friendzone not because he's a fuckboy or something

[maximumpower]

You don't know?
You're also apparently NOT establishing boundaries.
It's YOUR body, YOU set them - or move on - right soon.
If he doesn't respect them, then you don't want to get into a relationship with him.

[FilmGuy93]

He sees you in a sexual light. Do you think you would be able to have a sexual relationship with him?

[MangoBob]

He wants to be more than just friends, and being friends is an excellent start to a romantic relationship. If you pass him by in 20 years you’ll regret it.

[KrakenAttackin]

He's tired of sitting on your friend zone bench. He has decided to either have sex with you or cut you out of his life. Good for him.

[Anonymous]

Guys do bot have females as “friends”

if you are a friend, you are someone he wants to have sex with.

[spartan55]

No guy wants to be your friend.

[Asker]

why not

[spartan55]

There is no upside, no benefit

[Jamesshinobi]

walk in to traffic you tease.

[In_Trance]

Men and women can't be friends