Do mixed signals mean no and move on? Even when it comes to loving your best friend?

[Anonymous]

I keep going crazy thinking “should I move on or keep talking to him?” Because it hurts

[LexiXide]

I have the same thing happening to me I love my best friend and he'll go and say that he doesn't think we should date but then his body language tells me otherwise it's kind of weird so I'd like to help you but I need to figure out this question for myself

[Asker]

I hate it and I’m so hurt!! Even more so because he just told me he has feelings for his ex 😖😭🤨 why are guys so complicated? I feel like there’s no point in having any guy friends

[Asker]

And when I started video chatting with him, I saw him smiling and I caught myself trying to not smile and I covered my mouth and part of my face and I said “you’re making me smile when I don’t want to” and he kept smiling. And I think his chances of getting his ex back are pretty low because he said he can’t find her on Facebook, there’s only her old account that she doesn’t use anymore and she has a kid, and her parents hate him

[LexiXide]

I know right like everything in me is telling me that my best friend loves me but then there's always this 1 part of me that tells me now just forget about it he doesn't like you its so complicated!! you should dm me, we can work through eachothers crush issues so i can understand more

[Asker]

I messaged you

[LexiXide]

That's weird I didn't get it

[Asker]

Hmm that is weird. I tried again

[LexiXide]

You might have to make another question but unanonymatize it

[LexiXide]

Than just tell me what the question was and then I can message you

[FilmGuy93]

It sucks, but that’s what I would recommend. I’m a firm believer in the “heck yeah, or no” approach to living life. If you/the person or opportunity doesn’t respond with a resounding “yes,” then don’t do it.

[Asker]

He knew I didn’t wanna talk about him anymore because of it and I couldn’t handle it, so why were him and his brother trying so hard to get a hold of me after a month of not talking to him cuz of an argument about it? His brother was contacting me in different ways on his behalf

[FilmGuy93]

There is absolutely no reason I would know something like that lol

[Asker]

Why?

[FilmGuy93]

Because I’m not them. Men are all different people, just like women.

[In_Trance]

Men and women can't be friends.
Of course there's mixed signals... are you friends or not?

[Asker]

I don’t know. Personally I don’t think so

[Asker]

And he says we are

[Wise4myage]

If your confused, than talk to him about it. Or, just remain friends and never go beyond that.

[Asker]

It’s hard being friends with him with all that and me wanting him (in a romantic relationship way). It hurts me, makes me confused and all this stuff. He tells me he loves me, deeply cares about me, he’d rather be with me if he wasn’t in his LDR, that he loves everything about me, everything about me is sexy to him, I’m perfect to him, etc. But I still hurt, have confusion, doubts and stuff. And he’s always there for me whenever and however he can, and we have a close, different bond but still

[Wise4myage]

He's all talk and no action, so I say move on from him for the time being.

[jshm2]

Cut the drama and move on.

[Anonymous]

🤣🤣🤣