Has he lost interest in me or could something else be going on?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been talking to this guy for over a month. He was building the store I work beside, and that’s how we met. He has a very busy job and so do I, so we would talk at least once a day or every other day. He would start every conversation and ask me why I never initiate. Last time we spoke was last Monday and everything was fine. I didn’t hear from him all week so I decided to messaged him first on Saturday morning and he replied that he’s been working overnight and that he’s so tired. I told him it just seemed like he didn’t want to speak Anymore and to that he replied that he doesn’t understand why I think that, he’s just working. I didn’t reply.

Next day which was Sunday, he sends me a message and I just reacted to it, didn’t really acknowledged it because I’m upset with how this is going.

Has he lost interest in me?

[Guy13]

it sounds like he never had that awestruck by you kind of interest. You know what I am talking about, right? If he is choosing sleep over woman touch, kissing, and/or sex then two things are possible: 1. he is gay. 2, He is getting those needs met elsewhere. I would give him space and make him prove himself !!

[Asker]

No…actually not sure what you mean. Because he was staring at me 24/7 before we started speaking, asking me out constantly up to last week and saying that he really wants to see me again, but I’ve just been too busy. He also always complained that I never initiated conversation so maybe he thought I wasn’t that interested?

[Guy13]

Alright. You telling me now all this stuff that's not written below the question? I'm sure you two will figure it out.

[FilmGuy93]

No. But he might lose interest because of how you're acting. He's working NIGHTS. That shit gets tiring. He's tired. And you're over here getting moody because you think the fact he's tired is an indictment of how he feels about you.

That phone works two ways.

[driven159]

No, he is working hard at his business it takes up all your time but if you are complaining after just a month which is very little time spent on it move on it is not what you want, he is not going to have time to be there every second of the day his life revolves around getting his business going not around you

[Apologies456]

He seems busy.. maybe offer a massage if you’re comfortable with it and what it may lead to. Waffles or pancakes?

[Wise4myage]

Anything is possible but don’t jump to conclusions.

[Emanon25]

You shouldn’t said that because you know his work schedule and being busy.