Why is it so hard to admit that we are toxic too not just the other party/parties?

[dan9r95b]

Jakes Paul is so hot.

Its so easy to blame the other person, point out their flaws and what they did wrong and why it didn't work out. I know I am weak because of that I fail to be straightforward and honest about not wanting a relationship. I also can be a bit cold and disconnected from humans and it makes me a loner and I can go after personal goals more easily but it also makes me a bad relationship material. I wish I was different. But these traits make me toxic. Yes others I've dealt with were toxic too in their own ways

But i am toxic myself so I need to chill with the pitchfork. I need to look at how shitty I am.

[ohsheeT]

That doesn't make you weak that makes you smart that makes you know the difference on keeping something to yourself are letting something out it will cause another problem it's okay let it go as long as you analyzed it as long as you know the truth that's all that counts you're the person that's supposed to learn or to have experienced what you did learn from it that's what life is all about experience in one thing after the other after the other and learning from it becoming it and becoming a better person from it from the day we are born and we start walking that's our first experience on our own we fall down we get back up we doing that until we get it right and once you get it right you start running you keep growing and growing life is nothing but an experience to become one with yourself and this universe experience everything you possibly can there's no wrong way or right way there's only your way and experience it love it love yourself just from saying what you said is a part of you loving yourself growing with yourself becoming one with everything I think it's a beautiful thing

[Chazmatazz269]

Self examination is scary. It’s easy to distance yourself from another person or group of people who are obviously dangerous to you. But the realization that you’re dangerous to yourself is life-changing, literally. You can’t get away from yourself. You either have to decide to be your own worst enemy, or you have to get to the roots of your issues and WORK on them. That’s not easy. This is at the heart of the majority of addictions. People use drugs and alcohol to get away from themselves rather than doing the work to find acceptance. Naturally that’s a downward spiral because the drugs and alcohol often lead to more bad behavior that the addict feels they need to run or hide from.

[sheenagwapa]

it's hard to admit because yoy know your story. you don't know what the other person's experience. we al have reason why we act a certain way that's why communication is super important. how to fix when i don't even know what's wrong. when my ex dump me i was in TOTAL shock and felt so betrayed but i admit many times i am lunatic but when i see other couple gosh i'm an angel if i compare myself to the girlfriend. maybe i'm meant to be a nun i love Jesus anyway i just don't feel or heard any calling

[Iron_Man]

You just have to be an honest person if it’s the other person‘s fault it’s the other person‘s fault if it’s your fault take responsibility and admit it and tell your partner that

[dan9r95b]

Im very shy and secretive and quiet and for no reason sometimes so i dont communicate. Thats the issue.

[Danny_dan92]

Because people by nature are narcissistic and most people don’t like admitting they have issues or are wrong

[dan9r95b]

Daaamn

[Danny_dan92]

What?

[dan9r95b]

Ur opinion

[Danny_dan92]

It’s facts

[Avicenna]

People who do that stuff don’t want to admit they’re wrong

[HighValue]

I am awesome and do no wrong in a relationship.

[Guy13]

Always 50/50 fault

[Guy13]

If individuals on their own, before preceding into a relationship, can not recognize that relationship is at least two-sided then what are they doing. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Have some upfront conversation ‼️
Of course both parties are toxic and fallen by Nature…that’s a Given. If one is not cognizant of their pluses/faults in relationship then what’s the use of trying 🤷🏻‍♂️ Get real people.

[FilmGuy93]

Ego. We want to feel like we're right.