He said he was at a bar with friends and he got disgusted by the hot women around him and thought about me, so he left the bar and his friends. I've never asked or wanted him to do anything like this, i told him i dont mind if he's around hot girls or talks to them. He said he didn't do it for me. Is this normal behavior?
yes it is. there may be women who don't disgust him, but many will. nothing worse than slankity females at a bar, drinking trying to play their manipulation games. He's in a relationship and can see it, you can see it because you are a female. his single buddies probably cannot and get sucked in by them. It's nature. I've felt the same at times most recently. when in relationship, others look less attractive and less interesting.
I think some of this is the nature of relationship, hearts, bonding, chemicals, bacteria (from each other) influencing thought... were mostly bacteria. and that's good...
may not be normal for everyone, personalities matter.
so why is he a boyfriend not a husband is the next question...
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No its not normal. Sounds like je started feeling guilt about being around the other women, and that made him feel as if he had too remove himself from temptation.
Its good, means he cares about you. But its not normal. I would not say it's unhealthy behavior, but it implys he was feeling tempted and in a way wanted you to know it.
I never cheated on my exwife. But back when I was totally in love with her, whenever I got tempted I would get up and leave. Or if I didn't want to leave, I started acting really cold to the women. And my single or wife cheating friends didn't appreciate that. So I would leave.
Give how my marriage ended, I seriously regret it. I probably should cheated, would made me better at dating after divorce.
My husband is like this. He often goes on dad rants about how other women need to cover up and don't need to wear so much make up to be beautiful.
I'm pretty modest and don't wear a lot of make up. He thinks a lot of women are lackluster compared to me.
So you're not alone! We're so lucky! 😄
this is NOT normal behavior.
Even if he loves you to death, he WILL notice and appreciate other women.
I have had too many guys use that Line on me to try to convince me they are Steady with me, yet 99% of them were looking at, flirting with, and usually fucking other girls behind my back.
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Sounds over the top to me.
No, that's not normal. Most guys will look at other women, and enjoy the view, but that's it. To say he only looks at you sounds like he may have problems dealing with women, thinks he might be more than just tempted, and may want to control you. Be careful with him.
I've definitely had those moments. I would'nt say it applies to every woman, but it does happen quite often for me as of late. Currently, I'm with the woman I want to marry and I often feel even more lucky to have her in my life when I interact with other people and am reminded how special and unique she is. I dont think I would call it disgust in the traditional sense, but it's certainly a repulsive force.
that is not normal... it is weird
and 99% chances of that being a lie as well... very suspiciousSounds like he's really selling that line. 🤣 I'm a loyal guy. Yes, beautiful women kind of fade into the background when I'm in love. Because I'm simply NOT interested in other women. But to say they disgust him? 🤣 Sounds like he's selling that story to me.
It’s a compliment. My ex used to tell me all the time she was disgusted about the idea of another man’s dick besides mine. Well she was lying. She cheated to her hearts content and with the exact men she said she didn’t like 😂. Not saying it’s your man. I’d just take it as a compliment. And definitely don’t tell him to talk to other girls. Are you trying to get cheated on?
That doesn't sound normal to me. Seems like he's trying to hard to prove he's not attracted to other women. Why does it have to be to the point to where he's disgusted by other women? It could be his style or he may have a guilt complex, or unfortunately trying to hide something. Don't want to jump the gun on that, but this wouldn't sit well with me. I'd probe more into that.
If he really believes that it’s not impossible but over the top.
Chances are he’s exaggerating because he wanted to give you the ultimate compliment. Still sounds weird though.
It would be amazing to have a man with a mindset like that. On the other hand, I wonder if he's just saying that to reassure for some reason so that there's not suspicion of anything that may/May not be going on?
Women are fickle, they only like what they have and what they don't have they are envious to a level that it makes Snow Whites Mom seem like a saint XD.
That must have come out wooing. That’s too off to be on purposely. He likes you lots. Women do not disgust him. You are the best ‼️
A tad melodramatic but it sounds like he is trying to overemphasize his point.
Well if that's really happening something's wrong with him but if he's just trying to make a point to you then I understand that
I'd say he's either full of shit, or a tad unstable.
No, that's not normal, but he's probably just saying that to make you feel special and more secure in the relationship or whatever.
That's definitely odd behavior. He doesn't have to disgusted by hot women in order to be loyal.
That's not normal at all. I would be sus if I had a boyfriend that said that to me.
Maybe trying to reassure you but no man can resist at least admiring other women.
I think it's cute and you'll be liberated from thoughts you might get cheated on.
Lol that's bullshit. Even if it was true that is extremely unhealthy and stupid.
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