My boyfriend says he loves me to the point that other women disgust him. Is that normal?

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He said he was at a bar with friends and he got disgusted by the hot women around him and thought about me, so he left the bar and his friends. I've never asked or wanted him to do anything like this, i told him i dont mind if he's around hot girls or talks to them. He said he didn't do it for me. Is this normal behavior?

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

No its not normal. Sounds like je started feeling guilt about being around the other women, and that made him feel as if he had too remove himself from temptation.

Its good, means he cares about you. But its not normal. I would not say it's unhealthy behavior, but it implys he was feeling tempted and in a way wanted you to know it.

I never cheated on my exwife. But back when I was totally in love with her, whenever I got tempted I would get up and leave. Or if I didn't want to leave, I started acting really cold to the women. And my single or wife cheating friends didn't appreciate that. So I would leave.

Give how my marriage ended, I seriously regret it. I probably should cheated, would made me better at dating after divorce.

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

yes it is. there may be women who don't disgust him, but many will. nothing worse than slankity females at a bar, drinking trying to play their manipulation games. He's in a relationship and can see it, you can see it because you are a female. his single buddies probably cannot and get sucked in by them. It's nature. I've felt the same at times most recently. when in relationship, others look less attractive and less interesting.

I think some of this is the nature of relationship, hearts, bonding, chemicals, bacteria (from each other) influencing thought... were mostly bacteria. and that's good...

may not be normal for everyone, personalities matter.

so why is he a boyfriend not a husband is the next question...

watercolor_lions · Accepted Answer

My husband is like this. He often goes on dad rants about how other women need to cover up and don't need to wear so much make up to be beautiful.

I'm pretty modest and don't wear a lot of make up. He thinks a lot of women are lackluster compared to me.

So you're not alone! We're so lucky! 😄

wingattebaby16 · Accepted Answer

this is NOT normal behavior.

Even if he loves you to death, he WILL notice and appreciate other women.

I have had too many guys use that Line on me to try to convince me they are Steady with me, yet 99% of them were looking at, flirting with, and usually fucking other girls behind my back.

coachTanthony · Answer

Sounds over the top to me.

AviatorTom · Answer

No, that's not normal. Most guys will look at other women, and enjoy the view, but that's it. To say he only looks at you sounds like he may have problems dealing with women, thinks he might be more than just tempted, and may want to control you. Be careful with him.

Anonymous · Answer

I've definitely had those moments. I would'nt say it applies to every woman, but it does happen quite often for me as of late. Currently, I'm with the woman I want to marry and I often feel even more lucky to have her in my life when I interact with other people and am reminded how special and unique she is. I dont think I would call it disgust in the traditional sense, but it's certainly a repulsive force.

NathanDavis · Answer

that is not normal... it is weird and 99% chances of that being a lie as well... very suspicious

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like he's really selling that line. 🤣 I'm a loyal guy. Yes, beautiful women kind of fade into the background when I'm in love. Because I'm simply NOT interested in other women. But to say they disgust him? 🤣 Sounds like he's selling that story to me.

Anonymous · Answer

It’s a compliment. My ex used to tell me all the time she was disgusted about the idea of another man’s dick besides mine. Well she was lying. She cheated to her hearts content and with the exact men she said she didn’t like 😂. Not saying it’s your man. I’d just take it as a compliment. And definitely don’t tell him to talk to other girls. Are you trying to get cheated on?

mxdchc · Answer

That doesn't sound normal to me. Seems like he's trying to hard to prove he's not attracted to other women. Why does it have to be to the point to where he's disgusted by other women? It could be his style or he may have a guilt complex, or unfortunately trying to hide something. Don't want to jump the gun on that, but this wouldn't sit well with me. I'd probe more into that.

RangerBlue22 · Answer

If he really believes that it’s not impossible but over the top.  Chances are he’s exaggerating because he wanted to give you the ultimate compliment. Still sounds weird though.

nojokecarmichael · Answer

It would be amazing to have a man with a mindset like that. On the other hand, I wonder if he's just saying that to reassure for some reason so that there's not suspicion of anything that may/May not be going on?

Pyrofox · Answer

Women are fickle, they only like what they have and what they don't have they are envious to a level that it makes Snow Whites Mom seem like a saint XD.

Guy13 · Answer

That must have come out wooing. That’s too off to be on purposely. He likes you lots. Women do not disgust him. You are the best ‼️

Sixgunsound · Answer

A tad melodramatic but it sounds like he is trying to overemphasize his point.

ohsheeT · Answer

Well if that's really happening something's wrong with him but if he's just trying to make a point to you then I understand that

spartan55 · Answer

I'd say he's either full of shit, or a tad unstable.

Cherry234 · Answer

That's not normal at all. I would be sus if I had a boyfriend that said that to me.

Aerolyn · Answer

No, that's not normal, but he's probably just saying that to make you feel special and more secure in the relationship or whatever.

fonduegirl · Answer

That's definitely odd behavior. He doesn't have to disgusted by hot women in order to be loyal.

PeteBy · Answer

Maybe trying to reassure you but no man can resist at least admiring other women.

Rania05 · Answer

I think it's cute and you'll be liberated from thoughts you might get cheated on.

LazerBean · Answer

Lol that's bullshit. Even if it was true that is extremely unhealthy and stupid.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Pretty normal, yeah. It's not typical human behavior for someone to want to be intimate with other people.

WeeeISee · Answer

I think Ted Bundy felt that way about Liz. It’s always good to to admire people you love. Be careful though.

Reddy4it · Answer

I wouldn’t want him to be disgusted. What if he’s talking to my friends…will his disgust show?

kikissss · Answer

From what I learned is that men tend to exaggerate to the negative if they really like the girl. So he is probably lying!

d3n0939 · Answer

It's normal not getting any feelings towards other women when you love a girl. But the way he said is suspicious

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Cheezy liar lol 😆 And women are never satisfied that scenario would be most girls dream situation lol

Ninania · Answer

Lol, sounds like manipulation, though he could just be a weirdo thinking it's a gallant move.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

It's normal to happen if he had drink in him but you must be really hot

es20490446e · Answer

He means he is disgusted by the idea of being with those women.

Jackblue · Answer

I don't really think it works that way. He isn't being honest.

Jenny-Marie · Answer

One word for him comes to mind. Liar. My trust for him would reach rock bottom.

Anonymous · Answer

No, not normal/healthy to be disgusted by other women.

red324 · Answer

I don't look at other girls when I really like a girl.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

This is Good! This is VERY Good! Don't try to change him. Embrace the blessing!

Relationship-goals · Answer

Honestly that’s a little suspect. Disgust is a big word. But, I’m sure he just means he doesn’t fancy the others because he has you.

_gigi_ · Answer

My boyfriend is like that too I don't know if that’s normal tho 🥲

xJayleenx · Answer

Yes but you never know if someone’s lying. If he’s demisexual that’s normal

hostboy__fastestlaps · Answer

Dude sounds like it could it will be a democrat or work at Starbucks or chipotle

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

If that’s true then you might be a Lucky Winner

Jsjjc · Answer

A bit over the top but your bag i out is too modern for my liking. Your happy with your man talking to hot women. That’s a red flag

Jouth · Answer

all women disgust me, that's how you know I love my girl

ProVox · Answer

I'm gonna to use this one sometime.

Anonymous · Answer

As long as he is not abusive or controlling.

dustybiker · Answer

Does he have other obsessive tendencies?

Anonymous · Answer

I guess for some men, he must really be in love with you to feel that way

burlen · Answer

That doesn’t make any sense.

Lynn7dsd · Answer

To be honest its a little weird

Missgingles · Answer

He is lying to you to be sweet. But he chose you.

Sonorous · Answer

Could be true. Could not be true.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Strange thing to say, but he's loyal.

DermalPunch · Answer

He is soooooooo full of it. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Msputiton · Answer

Tbh, seems like a lie.

AsaKyo · Answer

Sounds like a dreamboat

Googlemyahoo · Answer

Lying he's fucking them all.

Anonymous · Answer

That probably sounded better in his head.

TroyDT · Answer

Sounds like an addiction to me.

OddBeMe · Answer

Ehh he's lying. But its sweet.

Philyouup · Answer

That’s over the top. and highly improbable

Hardworkingguy · Answer

MMM that seems like an exaggeration

SphynxUK · Answer

Verrry suspicious 🤨

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