Why do men get so uncomfortable when you say something nice to them? (Page 2)

Question

Is it cause they think we are flirting?

TroyDT · Answer

I don't unless I suspect a manipulation attempt.

deveno · Answer

Simply put, we don't get it often and don't know how to react

RavVid · Answer

It is unusual to get compliments from a girl so we don't know how to react.

fonduegirl · Answer

Yes, they can't differentiate between compliments and flirting

Belgie · Answer

It's so rare the first instance is "what's the catch?"

BeMuse · Answer

I don't know, say something nice and I'll give you my knee jerk reaction on what I think...

captain_voidwalker · Answer

It's because it happens so rarely our initial reaction becomes what is this person trying to get from me.

HaveNoName · Answer

The ones who do, because they are already committed somewhere else or even married but when a side fling or crush says something nice, they are scared of anything serious developing.

richgentlem4n · Answer

Just a bit of anxiety from us, we don't get compliments from a girl that much.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Men are not used to compliments from women and not every compliment is sincere so yeah

TonightYouu · Answer

Because every time a guy interacts with a girl for you it’s just an A and B conversation for us it’s an A B C conversation  You  Me  My penis

Anonymous · Answer

Because they are so uncommon that we can process them

AndrésC64 · Answer

Because it doesn't happen nearly as often for guys as it does for girls.

Thatdude091699 · Answer

They are so rare we assume there's a motive or are insulting us.

Userisrohit · Answer

I don't know whom in particular you are talking about. I am fine with anything instead maybe i will make you uncomfortable 😃

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know. An attractive woman has never given me a genuine compliment, so I can't relate.

888theGreat · Answer

I know it is really flim flam . I don;t like being bragged on because I know it is just things people don;t really mean.

Hardworkingguy · Answer

Do other men feel that way? I would be happy to get compliments from a woman. Specially if I like her

Lincoln33 · Answer

We men don't see the good in our self because we are never happy with our present situation, so when someone say something nice it doesn't trigger us

Beardedman1996 · Answer

We’ve been so down played in society as a whole, compliments are something we don’t quite know how to take because we dont usually get them

RandomGuy1032 · Answer

genuine compliments females could give are withhold. They compliment you its for with a motive in mind

Anonymous · Answer

Because women generally aren't nice unless they want something. 🤣🤣🤣

OddBeMe · Answer

I uh, well, we just uh aren't uh good with uh emotions. Toxic masculinity.

scooogy · Answer

I would rather be struggling about whether I should take it as flirting

Deserter · Answer

Cause y'all never do so we don't know how to take it

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

That’s not true. People who are shy might respond to a compliment like that, but it has nothing to do with being male or female.

McKellar · Answer

Not all men get uncomfortable about that.

TonyV · Answer

Cause it almost never happens

BlueScorpio · Answer

Maybe they are shy and not use to comment.

Pyrofox · Answer

Guys simply don't get complimented much.

LilWisp · Answer

We just don't get nice things said to us very often so when it does happen it's odd.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

It's because it happens so rarely.

rienna888 · Answer

Lol cuz they’ll remember it forever

Anonymous · Answer

Because it happens once every 5 years.

lightbulb27 · Answer

they aren't confident in themselves.

dustybiker · Answer

I know.. it’s fun. 😁

Anonymous · Answer

Men do not. Some idiots you were talking to did

OnlinePeanut22 · Answer

They not used. Very rarely happen with guys

grega239 · Answer

Because its rare.

Cedman · Answer

We don't get compliments as guys

TrillXHippy · Answer

It’s rare for me

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

There just not use to it

humanearth · Answer

Bingo you nailed it

donaldbull48 · Answer

It depends on the kind of compliment actually.

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

It's because they are not used to it

Anonymous · Answer

Because guys aren't used to it

Anonymous · Answer

They read too much into it.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Never heard of that before.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not that common for guys to hear that.

imfreeze95 · Answer

Well I have ASD so there’s that

Fuentes · Answer

Cause most don't receive them

BLP11520 · Answer

We are used to rejection And criticism

Chthou95 · Answer

Because men dont know your true intention

QuietVerbena · Answer

I think so

ZenJen444 · Answer

What?

maximumpower · Answer

Yep!!

SunnyHeythere · Answer

Are they?

Methis · Answer

Yes. It's not normal

zLlgoord · Answer

Top hello!!!

jimmy2 · Answer

It's childish

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